My ex is having my child in several months and she finally agreed to try things out. We went out on a date for after 4 months and things went alright. We were having fun and everything. That night we even had sex which confused me becuz she sees sex as very important and puts a lot behind it. I thought she was tellin me she loved me again. But when i was dropping her off i went to give her a hug and she played me and said we are just friends. I didnts say anything until the next time we went out and she got real mad over it and we got into an arguement. She said that she gives up and is not goin to let me see my kid. I still want her and my baby. I cant believed i messed up. What should i do?
2006-08-31 04:34:23 · 6 answers · asked by its me! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u didnt mess up, shes sending you mixed signals, obv she's confused, give her some space and let her come to you
2006-08-31 04:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time,lots of time,and maybe some good old
classic movies or DVD's to watch and take
time out alone to think.
If she is pregnant,she could be having some
mood swings,or maybe she doubts who the
Father of the baby is? I hate saying that,but
it's something to think about,and could be the
truth? I really don't know,but give her some
space and maybe she'll come to you with
what's going on,if not,someone might tell you,
or you could call her and ask her?
maybe ask her if she'll do a blood test?
I don't know what else to tell you,but it does sound really strange dude!!!
Take some time out,then decide when you
have more time to think alone.
I wish you the best outcome,so take care.
2006-08-31 04:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just played you like a chump. She wanted to get off and you got her off. She sounds a bit mixed up emotionally and I would stay shy of her. But she can't deny you seeing your kid if your found to be satisfactory through the courts. It sounds like a legal hassle but if you want to see your kid you need to get a court order or she will mess with your mind by denying your visitation rights as a biological parent.
2006-08-31 04:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is facing pregancy blues... pregant women tend to have moodswings very often and u may be mixed up of what they want and do not want... so I think u have to be very patient w her and seek doctor's help to see if she is suffering from pre-natal blues... and also she know she may have to watch how she feel so as she may not affect the relationship you had we her... so I think 1stly.. u can talk to her and calm her down.. if she does not want to see u ..ask her best fren out on pretext and to act as mediator so that u can can nicely to her and find our the problem...
2006-08-31 04:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by veramira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore about them. It sounds cliched, yet trust me, it really is the thanks to get revenge on them. they're bullies and they'll thrive off any reaction or interest you supply them, so the thanks to address it is to easily purely not reply. sit as a ways faraway from them as available and dodge chatting with them, searching at them or interacting with them except surely mandatory. dangle out along with your actual friends and concentrate on making new connections and forming sparkling friendships with those that surely care about you and are dependable. Smile plenty and ask questions (in no way underestimate the ability of a grin)! even with if it means chatting with someone you've in no way talked to formerly, you'll both be pleased about it and also you'll have a sparkling team to flow about the year with. do not ***** or gossip about your ex-friends/previous friends on your new friends. it really is an coincidence purely waiting to ensue. continuously bear in mind that what comes round is going round and karma will come back to chew you on the butt finally; it receives back on your previous friends finally and also you do not desire any extra chaos! good success. i wish i have helped!
2016-12-06 01:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun u didn't mess up.........yo ex is jusy a lil playen *****......If she love's you she'll come back and if she doesn't come back then go find u a true baby gurl................and about ur baby............I'm sure u'll get to see him/her.................... Just wait and see what life has planed 4 u...........Holla
2006-08-31 05:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋