though its over for 2 months,..i still do remember and care for him..i know i've got to move on..but no matter how i avoid myself to remember him,i will still remember him somehow..i just miss him..its killin me sometimes although i chill all the time...we didnt talk anymore,i dont tink he wants to talk to me either..
2006-08-31 04:24:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand that it is really hard when you break up with someone, especially when you are really into him. You're still griefing for the loss of that intimacy and feelings you had shared with this person, that's why you will be more inclined to think about him; moreover, shared experiences will also mean that alot of everyday things will trigger memories of your ex. But remember, the critical issue here is that he is your ex, and the fact that he doesn't want to talk to you anymore is a good indication that he does not wish to continue on with this relationship and that he has moved on.
It is more beneficial for you to create new memories of your own to get over this man. Go out, experience life and grow, be engaged in things that makes you and only you happy... there are perks to being single, you don't have to please anyone else but you! And I know you probably won't want to hear this, but you should let him be... if he doesn't want to talk to you, and you persists in trying to talk to him, that's technically harassment even if your motives are pure. Don't let him and your feelings for him dictate your life now, you can't make someone love you, but you can love and respect yourself.
2006-08-31 05:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by spudnik8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yoe never know,text ,email or call, him you will never know unless you try, maybe he does want to talk to you but he's going threw the samething. Just make sure that you don't set your self up for even more of a heart ach if he doesn't want to talk to you. Just give it some thought,and maybe a lil more time see how you feel. I hope the bestfor you Good luck.
2006-08-31 11:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oka.. same thing goin on with me.. i suggest u delete everythin or get rid of evertthing that reminds u of him.. if theres was a particular shirt or somethin that he really liked of urs,get rid of it... delete all hsi old emails and his address... everything most go...then make a cd of a playlist of all the songs that make u realize things taht made him bad.. and everytime u thing of him avoid all the good thoughts and remember that ugly sweatery he always used to wear or that he had bo once and awhile.. i hope this helps... its helped me a lil even thou i just started a few days ago tryin to forget him forever.. trust me this will work.. just give it a chance :)
2006-08-31 11:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz u fall in love with him.do not worry im sure 1 day he will knew how much u care for him.im sure he wanna talk with u,maybe he want u to start first.
2006-08-31 11:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by omegaswaz s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-31 11:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you get back with him?
you still have feelings
2006-08-31 11:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tyr and confront him perhaps he may still be in love with you.before you kill yourself gently
2006-08-31 11:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by Aliyu J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to him
2006-08-31 11:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by animalbearlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋