My boyfriend and I care for each other deeply, but agree that we aren't clicking with each other right now. So much of our relationship has been, or could be, great, but we both need to sort things out in our own lives. Is it possible to believe that in time we could get back together and have a successful relationship? Or would I be wasting energy hoping for this? Is it possible to be friends with someone you've had such deep feelings for? Or would I be holding myself back from moving on? Thanks.
2006-08-31 04:16:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All relationships have ups and downs, you are probably just in the down phase right now. Take some time and really talk about it with your boyfriend but in a positive way. If you two are really good for each other you'll work through this, if not then let it go amicably. Good luck!
2006-08-31 04:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If things aren't working then you should split before you begin to resent each other. It is hard to tell at this point whether or not you could get back together - it depends on what happens in between times. Sometimes it can work but more often than not you'll both find other people and fall in love with them.
You can at least stay friends and always be there for each other and when you have both worked out whatever it is that you need to do then look at the relationship again and work out whether its still worth it.
2006-08-31 11:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by cheeky_delinquent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely possible to come back together when things have been sorted. Although, the staying friends part, I am not so sure. For one thing, I am assuming the 2 of you will be seeing other people in the time you are apart, and if there are feelings left there, someone will get hurt.
2006-08-31 11:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can happen because my husband and I dated for several years, then broke up for 2 1/2 years. We got back together and were married a year later. We've been married for almost 12 years. We both dated other people but decided we wanted each other more. Sometimes you just need to see what else is out there.
2006-08-31 11:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by candy7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's very possible for things to work out in the future, however, I wouldn't hold out hope for it because you would only be holding yourself back from real happiness
2006-08-31 11:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a girl for a short while. We went our separate ways for a few years then came back together. We ended up getting married and we're now going on 6 years.
Just depends on how strong your feelings are once you're apart.
2006-08-31 11:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Stumpy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I belive in the true saying if you love something and set it free if it comes back it was ment to be. I already know who is going to be my retirement husband. Just not compatible now
2006-08-31 12:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by justus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enotalone.com has alot of information about
this,and yes,many of the couples did and do
get back together.
Only God knows for sure if you two will or
not,but in the mean time,try to pamper your
self and do nice things just for you!!!
Take care,and have faith,ok?
Best wishes!
2006-08-31 11:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're holding yourself back from moving on. No one knows what t he future holds, you may never see him again.
2006-08-31 11:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by woodersondylan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anything is possible. would it work a second time? sometimes it does; often it doesn't. couples quickly rediscover what broke them up the first time...
2006-08-31 11:19:39 · answer #10 · answered by jeanne g 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋