How do I make it clear im taken??!!???!?

Question

Ok theres these guys and their like in a group (wierdos) and there sweet and I don't wanna hurt their feelings but they always come up to me when im at my locker and they do stuff like hold my hand kiss my hand grab me around the waist and my bf always thinks im cheating on him!! I tell him im not and make it clear im not but he gets really sad and I don't know what to do about those guys I have told them not to do that stuff and yell at them and I have even slapped their faces b4!! but why don't they get it?? and why do they keep trying so hard??? and why does my bf get so sad?? and doesn't say anything to them?? He's the quarter back of the football team he's tough enuff to say something!!! but why doesn't he????????? help please!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Issues.. I would report them to the school.

Answer 2

You should have never let these guys touch you from the very start. The reason they keep doing this is because you allowed them to do it from the begining. I think that it's very disrespectful for you to have allowed that to be done in the first place when you have a boyfriend. It's not about trying not to hurt their feelings no matter how sweet they are. You are going to lose your boyfriend and the respect from him as well. Did it ever occur to you that you come off easy in these guys eyes? Guys think a lot different then girls do. All that these guys want is what's between your legs and they will stop at nothing to get it. You should be ashamed of yourself for letting them even grab around your waist. I can't believe your boyfriend hasn't dumped you by now. You ask why he doesn't do anything to these guys?, well i'll tell you why because what's the point in him fighting these guys over a girl like you that doesn't even respect him as a boyfriend. Don't think that he won't find him another girlfriend either because he will if you continue to let this go on. I'm pretty sure your a very pretty girl, but don't let your looks and your popurlarity go to your head. As a young woman have more respect for yourself, maybe when this is done to you one day you will know the feeling. Walk away from these guys, put your foot down. If you don't you will lose your man for sure. What's more important to you at the moment? Not trying to hurt these guys feelings or keeping your boyfriend?

Answer 3

Plenty of guys out there like the challenge of taking some other guys' girl. Whether you make it clear or not that you aren't interested, may not deter them in the least. Some ape-like guys, it may even encourage. It makes them feel even more manly if they can not only attract a single girl, but attract a girl who already thought she was happy with some guy he thinks is inferior. (Competition doesn't stop after you're committed to some one.) Could also be that they see you as some sort of popular trophy or status symbol, and they may not even be interested in you in particular! Or care how you feel!

Shame on your boyfriend for not trusting YOU, offering you support, protection and standing up for you. I'd lose them all, and report anybody who doesn't leave you alone. Best wishes.

Answer 4

Okay first of all, are these guys your friends? You say they're sweet but maybe they need a good threat, like "Touch me again and I'm telling (a teacher, principal, etc...)" I know it's pretty lame sounding but you might not have to tell anyone - they might get the message and leave you alone. What they're doing sounds to ME like sexual harassment!

As for your boyfriend, maybe it's good that he doesn't say anything (or beat these guys up for that matter!). It's your thing to deal with. Nobody should be harassed, even by guys that you say are "sweet." And if they really are sweet, maybe they just thought you were playing with them before by telling them "no." This time when you threaten reporting them, they might get the picture.

Answer 5

He's not doing anything because he feels you broke his heart and you dont realise the attention your giving to others OR maybe he doesnt care about you and he likes someone else. You need to find out which it is. If he thinks your cheating on him, tell him your not and say to him "stick up for your woman, sort these assholes out because im yours and nobody elses" see what he does. If it was me, i love my woman i would kick all their asses. dont care how big they are!
As for you,
You have to make it firm and make it clear to those guys, your taken! anyway how could you say "theyre sweet and i dont wana hurt their feelings". Hello if you got a bf - who cares?! hurt their feelings! If you dont, you could pretend to be a good girl and continue to be harassed by those diks and loose your bf OR you draw the line, tell em to F""k @ff you. that'll prove to your guy your loalty lies with him.
theres a difference between "cant have and hard to get" make it clear to them cos i simpathise with your bf if your playing hard to get and not realising it. My advise to you is be with your bf all the time, hold his hand, when people see you together they wont make a move. if hes not doing anything or saying something and your doing everything right. The problem could be your man.
Sorry this is long but i hope it helps, good luck to you ;-)

Answer 6

First, go to your English/Language Arts class and learn how to punctuate your sentences. Second, the boys are obviously getting the reaction from you that they want. If they're really bothering you go to the Principle and have him/her tell them to leave you alone. You may want to take a minute and decide if you're enjoying this treatment or not. Are you secretly wishing that your boyfriend will get jealous? Do you like the extra attention? Figure it out and then do something about it.

Answer 7

You tell these idiots that won't leave you alone to, "LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE," and if they are still bothering the **** out of you then report their asses to a higher authority. I mean, you are losing the guy you love. You need to do something quick. To me, it sounds like the guys know what they are doing and are trying to stir up trouble. I think they are doing it more to make you mad and put a strain on your relationship then for purposes of trying to get with you. They are being pricks. Tell your principal or someone that you trust that can help stop the harrassment.

Answer 8

Pick a side...hurt these sweet guys' feelings or hurt your boyfriend's. You can't have it both ways. Tell the wierdos to back off and straight up tell them you have a boyfriend and prefer to be left alone. Or drop your boyfriend and play the field.

Answer 9

hire some jock (other than your bf) to beat the crap out of them all. imply that you'll do something sexy for the jock in exchange for him beating up these boys. Of course, when he comes around looking for payment, you can tell him that you have a headache, or that there must have been some misunderstanding, etc.

What's he gonna do - tell the principal?

As for your BF, I see you have him properly trained to be meek and docile. that's good. Don't ever let him regain his confidence again. You can ride this boy to the promised land at the other side of the rainbow.

Answer 10

I Can Really Only Understand Your First Question In Bold, So:

Say To Anyone That's Sowing Interest That I'm Taken And Not Interested (Unless You Are Actually Interested.)

Answer 11

Kick one in the nuts. Line it up and do it hard, use your knee if the angle is better. Scream rape and go hysterical. Explain the unwanted and rejected advances to the authorities culminating with him grabbing your *** and saying "You know you want it". They will suspend ruptured dude, and his friends will get the message, if not, repeat previous.

Your bf is sad because you let these guys do this sh*t to you.