wich are the things that means to you "he really loves me"
2006-08-31 03:59:30 · 19 answers · asked by fel_vena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when he means what he says
when he is totally faithful and sincere
when he accept my imperfections and flaws
when he loves me for who i am
when he look into my eyes with full of love
2006-08-31 04:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for each girl its a little different. But for me... things that would show that he really loves me is that he would be willing to respect my opinion and be honest about his. Also if he was loyal and honest and protecting i would feel secure around him. I would want him to tell me that he loves the way i am, like personality and looks, if he notices little things i do like playing with little kids or volunteering, or something i would want to know that he cares about what i do. Flowers and words are said to often sometimes. Plus, love is also a choice. You choose to love someone no matter what happens so that if the relationship moves on to more serious, it can be built up and be strong. When love is built on the physical it is weak. You get caught up in the feeling and the passion. Reality can be lost. So show her in a profound way that you love her for who and what she is.
2006-08-31 04:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by katerigs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not money, not sex. Just the small thing in life,like: Alittle note saying 'you are special". OR a poem or knowing i can call him any time of the day or night and chat about eveything and anything. Having someone to lean on and knowing that he is there for me. The eye conntact over a large croud of people. A daisy(my fav flower) See---it's the small things in life that counts!
2006-08-31 04:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by amanda b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things that make me feel loved is when he massage my feet. When he rubs my back. When he holds my hand,when he kisses me passionately.
When he takes his time in the bed to make sure that my needs have been met before his own. When he helps with all the cleaning chores around the house without me having to ask.
When he cooks dinner for me that doesn't mean bought. When he actually cooks a nice dinner for me at home.
When he helps take care of our kids so that I get a chance to relax.
When he takes me out on a date of just him and I. To a nice dinner/dancing/movie/etc. When he wants to spend time with me alone asking question,feeling,consuming all that I am.
When he brings me flowers, or gifts,just from out of the blue or just out of plain love not just for holidays,or birthdays,or anniversary's. Don't get me wrong it's nice to get them on these days also but you expect them.
The element of surprise keeps the flames burning high.
When he really listens to me when I talk, when he holds me when i cry,when he understands how I feel without me having to say a word at all.
A marriage or realtionship is 50/50 all in all. And you should treat your partner as you would want to be treated. If you give all of your self to that person then they should give it there all back.
And if neither of you can do this then what comes around goes around.
If you keep treating him/her bad then he/she will eventually find someone else who is willing to return his/her love and respect.
But if you are doing all that I've said then you are doing well in his/her head. And this is were our love first starts and from there it travels to our hearts. When all of our needs are being met this is when our heart grows in love.
And this is the stuff that makes me feel loved!!!!!!
2006-08-31 04:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by rockn75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spending quality time with me
willing to give up something like football with the lads if I needed him either through emotional problems/sickness/just his help
not being too "manly" to show affection in public - particularly in front of the lads!
surprises and presents once in a while
saying i love you - for no reason
2006-08-31 04:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the ways you can really know if a guys really loves you is if you ever catch him just looking at you for no reason, admiring you with does puppy eyes, that's how i come to find if his really in to me...
2006-08-31 04:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by sour_apple809 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calling me sweetie or baby, tells me he loves me, calls just to hear my voice, holding my hand in public or kissing me while we stand at a checkout line, does things for me, snuggles up to me at night, and I can tell by the way he makes love to me
2006-08-31 04:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by j_911_rhoads 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Latex, Rubber, Leather & Boots!
2006-08-31 04:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by hotblack_b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doing little things goes a long way, like leaving notes saying that you were thinking of me, or leaving little surprises like my favorite kind of candy. holding my hand. listening to me when i talk, being interested in the things that interest me without being overbearing or controlling.
2006-08-31 04:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by reoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he kisses me for no reason. When he surprises me with dinner plans. When he calls me to tell me that he loves me. And when he tells me he loves me every night before bed.
2006-08-31 04:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋