this is an email she replied to me...is she letting me down easy, or is she scareed, like she says she is...because she is only 13 and never been in a relationship before??
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later
2006-08-31 03:52:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are too young to date, go back to your studies!
2006-08-31 03:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's all of the above. She's letting you down easy and letting you know ahead of time that she is not interested in having a relationship with you. She only wants your friendship. The clue was when she said "I haven't EVER thought of being more than just freinds..." I actually recall saying those exact words to a very good friend of mine. I wanted to let the guy know that I was not interested in a relationship with him, because I think we were better suited as being just friends. Plus, he wasn't my type BUT not to say this is the case with you. I'm just telling you my story
:-) But anyway, she is still young and if she's never had a boyfriend this also indicates that she might be a little afraid. I think you should just continue being her friend. If you want a g/f, look for someone who is ready to be in a relationship and who has made it clear that they want to be in a relationship with you. The girl here, has made it perfectly clear that she just wants to be your friend.
2006-08-31 11:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k, here is what is really going on, your driving the girl nuts, she likes you as a friend. Nothing more. She's not trying to blow you off or get rid of you, she's doing her thing and she would like to stay friends with you but if you keep bugging her you will lose a friend. Keep the friendship, maybe when you both get older she will see you differently, right now just let her do her thing.
2006-08-31 10:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by skipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is way too young to date! At 13, kids are just starting to find out who they are....their true self. You're so impressionable at this age. You need to focus on studying, school, and being a good person. Not dating!!
2006-08-31 11:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is letting you down easy. I have used the same line many many times to guys that I didn't want to date. Sorry about that, but she isn't interested in you. I know it's hard to hear it, but you will definitely find someone else.
2006-08-31 11:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's letting you down. She is wanting to be friends. Besides she is 13...Way too young. How old are you?
2006-08-31 10:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by barney3076 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she just likes you as a friend. and maybe she's interested in someone else. you are both young and its the time in your life to have many crushes on people.
don't be upset by it. she is just looking for fun right now.
2006-08-31 11:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all are to young to be thinking about relationships. Just be friends and hang out and when its time you all will know.
2006-08-31 10:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by simplepleasure 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sonny can u or can't u read.. she made it clear in the letter that she only wants friendship and doesn't want to ruin it......
u need to find someone who wants to be w/u like that.. plus she's to young to be thinking bout relationships..
didn't school start.
2006-08-31 10:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She only wants to be friends with you, and .... HELLO she is only 13! What do you expect, a committment of marraige?
2006-08-31 10:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋