My b/f and i love eachother but when i go onto his Tagged page he has another girl saying that they love him and that they are his girlfriends and his chick and everything like that.... I confronted him about that and he said that he wasnt cheating on me so i'm really confused. please help me
2006-08-31 03:49:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's reverse the scenario. Say there are a couple of guys that think you are really HOTT! and they want your boyfriend to drop you? What would be the first thing they could do? Tag you, girl. Leave messages of love, emotion, flirtation.
You can't control what they do, you can only control what you do. And don't EVEN try to tell me that you don't talk to other guys, period, because, hands down you do. You are being WAY too controlling and the last thing a guy wants is a girl leading him around by the nose or other body parts.
Get real people, you are way to territorial about communication. To me cheating is sleeping with them.
I suspect you chat on line with other guys, you just may choose to delete after the chat.
If he is a good-looking guy and they have known him for years, of course they are going to chat. Do you snub a really cool guy at a dance, grocery store, shopping mall? Like heck you do, you look, you talk and sometimes you flirt.
What were you doing on his computer anyway? That is invasion of privacy. Now I suppose you will clean up your computer or space so you can show him you are not doing it too.
Think about it and calm down. If he is with you then take it for what it is. You can't blind him from looking and reading, you'll end up with a zombie. You have major issues with trust, here is your chance to work on that.
Good luck.
2006-09-08 03:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ding-Ding 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well... to tell you from experiance. He is cheating on you. He is communicating with other girls and you should find out who they are and call them. Find out for yourself from the girls. I'm sure you can find a record of phone numbers somewhere. Good luck and then you should leave him to play his mind games with someone else.
2006-08-31 03:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by miramira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear one, If it's not cheating, I guess there are hundred's of us on here that are wrong.....
No doubt in my mind he is playing the field and still trying to hang on to you.
Dump the Jerk. in other word's toss the jerk back in the pond , bait your line and catch a better one.
2006-08-31 04:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man needs to get some balls and tell this girl to stop. If he doesn't, then the problem is with him and not the other girl.
2006-08-31 03:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by barney3076 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is like cheating on you, what would he do if the girls want to meet him? what happens if he starts that talk with girls around where you folks live?
2006-08-31 03:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smack him upside the head.
2006-08-31 03:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋