My bf's starting to get really touchy in public, and I don't like that because it looks so immature. Like he would spank my butt and poke my chest in public while we're walking. He just reminds me of my ex when he does that. How should I discuss this with him?
2006-08-31 03:43:52 · 27 answers · asked by Angelheart 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...tell him he's your man but his behavior in public makes you feel uncomfortable.
...if he does it again-stop and tell him you asked once to stop.
...if he refuses to honor your "boundary" take it as a sign he won't respect a LOT of things about you.
2006-08-31 03:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that his groping in public is not sexy to you and that you wish he would stop. Tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable. Don't mention the part about your ex. No need for him to know that. Since you say that this is "starting", you can address early and put it to rest. It's your body and he should respect your wishes or be gone!
2006-08-31 10:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell him that is not only EXTREMELY immature (and low class) but disrespectful to you regardless if he means it that way or not. Frankly I would not even date someone that moronic..but I'm sure he must have other more redeeming qualities or you would not be with him...so just set him down and tell him with all seriousness...that kind of ??? behavior...needs to stop...NOW.
2006-08-31 10:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't feel comfortable that he is doing that in public because it makes you feel embarresed.
Start, "Look honey, i like (love) you a lot,but could you please not touch me like that in public? All the people stare at us and it makes me feel embarressed and uncomfortable."
Just don't mention the part about your ex.
2006-08-31 10:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has just started acting this way tell him to quit it! find out why he's acting different. and just tell him how you feel. tell him you dont like this new found glory of feeling you up in public. try NOT to tell him he's acting like your ex that could hurt his ego. and lord knows you dont wanna do that. hehehe
2006-08-31 10:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by crazydiamondbc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him that he need to quit acting so immature in public and that he need to think about how u feel.
2006-08-31 11:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u dont like it !!!!
but im sure hes just trying 2 show u how much he likes u and hes not afraid 2 show u off in public.....
2006-08-31 10:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by Maria N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he smacks your butt in public, smack his sack with a closed fist....he'll get the point! Once he gets off the ground that is !
2006-08-31 10:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it makes him look sophmoric and you don't like it.
Have some personal boundaries or you will end up being a doormat.
2006-08-31 10:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do exactly that. Tell him he makes you feel uncomfortable when he does that in public and to please stop while you are in public. He either will listen or he won't.
2006-08-31 10:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋