I am in love with this guy, i never felt this way about anyone before. I want to share my life with him. He is just not a stable person, had a hard life and he runs away alot one city to the next and he also drinks more than the average. I am at a lost, because i can't stop thinking about him, i worry about him and his choices.
2006-08-31 03:41:24 · 16 answers · asked by in love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good grief, this guy is a loser. You are setting yourself up for more heartbreak than you need or will ever want.
There are stable guys in this world. You do not need a loser drunk who moves every the rent is due. I am willing to bet that he has a criminal record.
If he ever changes, it will probably be for the worse.
2006-08-31 03:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bella I'm worried about you. What's going on with Bella that would make her want someone who clearly has issues that she can't help him resolve. My advise... RUN leave this guy alone. Take time to care for yourself, love you, do some thinking about you! Step back, remove all the emotional ties you have developed, and take a good look at the reality of this situation. Hopefully you will see that this is not a "healthy relationship". Listen to your head this time Bella cause your heart is setting you up to get hurt.
2006-08-31 03:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to evaluate whether or not this person can provide a stable life for you. I would suggest talking with him and putting down some ground rules. If he loves you he will comply, if not then let him go he is not worth all the trouble that may result from his instability.
2006-08-31 03:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by simplepleasure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not stable, then you need to realize that he is going to bring you down. Why do that to yourself? At this moment, the only thing this guy is capable of loving is himself. Look at his behavior. You will always be put last. Think long and hard about this.
2006-08-31 03:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by barney3076 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job working the pole at a high end strip club. You could pay his bar tab and keep an eye on him at the same time.
2006-08-31 03:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by Chronic Observer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forget about him. seems to me you feel sorry for him and you love him for having a hard life. It won't work till he realizes and settles down. So either wait long time for forget about him and move on.
2006-08-31 03:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone need stability in their world and if doen't have that right now he may never get it so dont cheat yourself out of life see if there is anything else is outthere
2006-08-31 03:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by keishahayes2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sound very destructive. find some one more stable for your own sake. he most likely won't cut down on the drinking which means he could be very dangerous for you
2006-08-31 03:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by nelly78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can run with him or loose him! You will not change him. Or just let him go and when he comes back around have fun while he is with you!
2006-08-31 03:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,tell him the truth.we men dont lyk to be stuck at home or at one place!!believe me IM a guy,I should know.Just keep it cool!
peace out!!! $King Delicious$
2006-08-31 03:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by KD182 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋