How do I find out if a girl that I like has a boyfriend?

Question

I really like this girl, and I think she likes me aswell, but I won't dare ask her out unless I know for sure that she will say yes.

She is very friendly with me, but she is also very friendly with most people. How do I find out if she likes me, and if she already has a boyfriend or not

Answer 1

Everyone tells you to ask her directly but I dout you want to or would not have posted the question. Try to slide the question in the conversation. Like if she says something then smile and ask her if that is what she thinks or what her boyfriend thinks about it. Then she might say, " no that is what I think" or" No, I dont have a boyfriend..."

Answer 2

I found out the girl I fancy to bits has a a boyfriend already, probably a long term relationship as well - but she might not be entirely happy in that relationship. And though I told myself I would never tear a couple apart (my parents were divorced, my sister is also twice married) .. I am so smitten with this girl that I'm, I suppose, less bothered with her having a boyfriend already. We've never dated yet as she is quite a distance away from me, but I would ask her out for sure. Perhaps if we should spend an evening together we both might notice it was but a fling and then decide it's not worth the pain - though I've had flings and this feels much stronger. Whatever happens I hope it ends well (or begins better yet..) for all parties involved - and it certainly has given me a new perspective on my parents' and sister's trouble. Some might get quite angry at me for even considering breaking a couple apart - my past self would have glanced at my current self with deep loathing too - but then.. I'd just kick my past self for showing me disrespect while he doesn't know what's going on, and be done with it :o)

So in short: just tell her you really like her (if you do), and whether she has a boyfriend or not.. Imagine the consequences, and if you think you, her bf and herself would be alright - then dare it.

Answer 3

Well, the surest way is to have a common friend and that way you can learn easily. But its not something i advice you to do.

You should try to do something while your are sitting with your friends(if you have the same group of friends)For instance, you can make up a story and come to a point where you can ask such a question:"do you see a movie with your boyfriend that often?"(i know its a silly example,but you know what i mean.somehow ask her the question,but dont show your intend)

if you cant do any of these,then you should take a big risk ,gather all your courage and tell her how you feel.(you may say " i like spending time with you" instead of "i like you",so that if you realize that she doesnt feel the same way,it would be easy to cover up what you said)Good luck..(and tell me what happens dude..)

I almost forgot,if she spends most of her time with her friends,she probably doesnt have a bf...

Answer 4

jeez dude if you two are friends ask her straight out - just in passing like - so you dating anyone right now - she's not gona know why you're asking - its a normal question!! If she doesnt have a boyfriend - then you progress onto finding out if she likes you - ask her to the cinema - something two mates can do any day - you'll be able to figure out if youre getting positiive vibes or not.

Answer 5

Ask her if she's doing anything at the weekend. If she has no plans, ask her if she'd like to do something. If she says yes, thats a very good sign. If she says no, it probably means she's busy or has a boyfriend.

Answer 6

Ask her what her plans are for the weekend. After she answers just say 'oh, cool. Are you heading out with the boyfriend or your mates?'. You'll know from her answer

Answer 7

talk to her tell her how you feel. of course if you ask her if she has a b/f she might tell you the truth, or she might lie to get what she wants. the best way to find out is to ask the people that she hangs out with.

Answer 8

Shag her then make it public, you will soon find out if she has a bf then.
Just ask her out on a date dude!
Buy her some flowers!
Tell her what you find nice about her!
Ask if shes up for it!
She can only say no, no pain no gain dude!!

Answer 9

Just ask

Answer 10

Oh come on now!You cant call ya self play boy and ask that question!!!!