Its cuz he takes control over everything like for example only to hangout with him and no one else. I love him and all but i dont know if i could continue with this mess. What shall i do about this mess????
2006-08-31 03:25:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him you've had enough.. you want a break.. and until and unless he listens to you and lets you have your own time, you and him can't be together..
see the instant change!!!
2006-08-31 03:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't sound good at all. If he loves you, then he should respect your freedom. He's probably got a low self-esteem because he only wants you to hang out with him, well if something ever goes wrong you'll have nobody to turn to. If things continue like this, you'll become his puppet. I think you deserve someone better who would let you be yourself and to make your own choices. You're an individual, so you shouldn't let anybody boss you around. If he's unwilling to change, then this relationship isn't likely to last too long. So why not end things while you're still ahead?
2006-08-31 10:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by Angelheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only going to get worse. You need to get out of this relationship as soon as possible. What happens if you don't let him control you, would he get violent? Sounds like this guy has some real problems, he is not respecting you at all.
2006-08-31 10:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by Emi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break uo with him because this is one of the examples of a relationship leading to abuse. Break up before he hurts you. Because there's only about a 20% he will change.
2006-08-31 10:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by Krystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you let him keep on running over and he'll think its ok! Put your foot down now, or tell him to hit the road! I had an ex like that and it got BAD!
2006-08-31 10:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by what the... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should be controling in a relationship, you should be able to hang out with your friends. Don't take advantage of it. My baby mama took advantage of it and now we are not together. I let her hang out with her friends and then that's all she did.
2006-08-31 10:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run,girl,Run.........................
and do not look back!!! trust me,after a few
days or weeks,you'll totally adore & love
your new found freedom and you won't let
no one take it from you again!!!
A boyfriend shouldn't be your Boss!
get to running while you still can!!!!
2006-08-31 10:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time to consider your own feeings
2006-08-31 10:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by Tristan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking yourself this, then I think that you already have your answer. Don't you?
2006-08-31 10:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by miz piz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋