why do black men date white women?

Question

i date blk men and i ask this question because sometimes blk females have a real problem with it. Some of them say white girls are stupid and that is why. I know we are all people and i love all people. I just wondered if anyone had ideas on this.

Answer 1

My husband is black, I am white and he told me that some black men do it for revenge. He said that back when the white men had slaves, the slave owners would take the black woman and have sex with them. He said some black men want to take what the white men have. He said there are a lot of black men out there hustling white women because the white women want to fit in and they don't want to be seen as prejudice so the black men are taking advantage of the women. He said that there are a lot that are on a power trip and abusing white women.

On the other hand he said that black women can be cruel and will not think twice about throwing scalding water or pot-ash on their man when they are pissed off. He said that white women have a gentler nature without all the drama so for some black men that will be the attraction.

My husband said that he had a type of personality that he was attracted to and didn't care about the race of the woman. He said that he found it easier to approach a black woman because of the unknown associated with white women possibly being racist.

I didn't write this for anyone to be offended. My husband is 50, I am 43. We talk all the time about the difficulties he has faced in society as a black man and the violence that occured when he was a kid during the civil rights movements. We can all agree that there are people up to no good in every race of human, men and women alike. I know that if I would have been close minded to meeting a man of another race that I would have never met my husband. We are two peas in a pod. I love him so much and I can't imagine my life without him!!!!

Answer 2

Because white women are the prettiest creatures on God's Green Earth.

Plus, the undeniable truth that when a black man sticks his pecker in a white woman he gets the satisfaction of screwing the white girls Dad. Anything to hurt the white man for holding him down.

Truth is, the best way to hold a black man down is to give him the opportunity to do something, as society has done, and then watch him DO NOTHING.

Answer 3

I guess it started with some big star and now it is habit. I have seen some real nice black women. I think also the chance of passing on the genes maybe a little less likely in white women and maybe they will be more excepted in the world. There are still a lot of people who discriminate against whites, blacks and mexicans. We are still all one color on the inside and that is red. Cant we get along

Answer 4

I am white and I dated a black guy for over 4 years. HIs family were not too pleased but we loved each other. I did get a few looks from black girls probably thinking what was he doing with me.

I can't answer for all black guys out there but my ex did say maybe it was because black girls are perceived to have a lot of attitude!

Answer 5

There's nothing wrong with having friends of different races, but I think when it comes to relationships, one should stick to your own race. that not realy a black and white issue alone, but a racial issue. I am an Afrikaner, but i won't even date German or anything else, because the culture gap is just way to big. if a black guy falls inlove with a white girl, it is a diferent situation. You cannot alway choose who you fall inlove with-But by all means try to avoid it. i think it is mostly a status thing. i hope that answers your question.

Answer 6

It should be why do white women prefer to date black men? In most cases the white women prefer the supposed sexual prowess of a black man. Most black males prefer to be with fuller figured white women.

Answer 7

same reason a white man dates a black women. beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, and there is no color stigma when you look into someones eyes and it clicks that they are the one for you. Love is colorblind, too bad the rest of the world isn't like that.

Answer 8

Why not? I dont see anything wrong with it at all. Race is just the color of our skin... Inside we are emotional and dependant upon eachother for survival... Why not be with someone of a different race if they make you happy?? We dont live all that long on this planet... I would think our goals should be to be happy, and not bash eachother or not accept eachother because of the color of our skins... But thats just me.

Answer 9

ask yourself, if you were a black girl would you date a black guy?? there famous for making babiesand running off not staying employed, being gangsters, riding around shooting at people, look at the prison population , over 3/4 are black men!!

Answer 10

Same reason that they date black women. Attraction.