We've been married almost for three years. He just recently turned to Jesus. All his family is into witchcraft. Now he belives in Jesus adn prays for his mother to believe in him too. But very often demons attacks him and I can't do anything. I'm not keeping records of wrong and I forgive him for whatever he does. But I can't anymore. Yesterday all day he was accusing me in little things. Like why I put christian radio so loud, why i didn't turn onto that street, why i say the butter isn't salt when it is salt. And I told him - LET's talk. he answered:"I'm tired i want to sleep." I cried and told him that he didn't respect me. He said:"I don't believe to your tears!" ANd then minutes later he is kind and nice again... I can't live like that. Should I always forget the way he hurts me? or Should I punish him and not talk? (that's what i'm doing now). Please help me with the advice. I'm not going to the counsellor I'd go to the Lord.
2006-08-31 03:05:58 · 16 answers · asked by Young_woman 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It feels like that he knows that he can do anything because I will forgive him anyway,,,, it hurts really bad being a door mat.
2006-08-31 03:17:53 · update #1
pray about it. don't give up on him that would cause him to revert back to witchcraft.
he if fighting what he knows and he needs all of the christian support he can get.
just keep loving him
2006-08-31 03:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be LDS 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You may need to temporarily remove yourself from the situation, and be surrounded by other christian women when this is possible. No need to tell everyone of the pain you are dealing with, because that only insults God. I learned this the hard way.
God will take care of this if you leave it in his hands or at his feet. In the mean time, learn new things about God. Be patient.
It's painfull, but rewarding to see it thru.
I am currently having the same difficulty. And I've been married for almost 20 years. The problem hasn't been with us that long. We've had other problems, but we've made it this far and will go further because we are committed, but sometimes........oooohh, I'm just not sure how strong I am. I know I do gain strength by drawing closer to Him thru reading the bible or listening to the radio (big advocate of the christian station), and TV and Church.
I thank God for all he provides me with.
2006-08-31 03:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by so what do you think? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to get in touch with reality and give up all the supernatural beliefs. Talk with your counselor. All the prayer on earth will not do what action can do. Don't punish your husband with the silent treatment (although I know it's hard not to). Communication is the key. Read some books on how men and women communicate. Good luck to you.
2006-08-31 03:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kathryn™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reasoning that he is under demonic attack is nonsense. His bad behavior has nothing to do with Witchcraft. If fact most Witches are well behaved because they accept the fact that they are truly responsible for their actions.
He may be bi-polar or he is just plain cruel. Get professional help or leave.
Blessings )O(
2006-08-31 03:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't accept his excuses that he is under attack.....his behaviors are illogical and unkind and he is responsibile for them....no " the devil made me do it will suffice "
He is not a victim, he is a believer....His treatment of you should be an example to people who don't believe.........not a cause for wimpy excuses
Hold him accountible, nothing in scripture talks about you being a doormat. A healthy Christian counsellor will take this excuse out from under him like a rug
2006-08-31 03:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by steve f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think demons have anything to do with it and of course we don't have the whole story because we have not heard his side. Long story short go to counseling. You must work at your marriage. It doesn't come easy. Just remember these two words: MARRIAGE COUNSELING!!!
I hope everything get better for you both!
2006-08-31 04:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by Nelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way, i think, to make him understand is to talk, communication is very importand for a healthy relationship and a good family. if he doesn't want to talk about this try to find a way to tell to him everything that you think, like write a letter or make him listening to you... you must be honest with him and talk to him with your heart... he will understand and feel that you love him... am not a 'beliver' but if he is he must know that jesus is love and understanding... good luck, i belive love will win
2006-08-31 03:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by altin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the family facing these religious problem, may you have to tolerate that if you really love him, in other way you have to go for counseling how to manage this situation..
2006-08-31 03:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by Drone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your priest or minister. He can counsel you both, in the name of the Lord. Seriously...if you want to save your marriage, and help your husband stay on the right track, you will swallow your pride and seek counseling (again...from the minister).
2006-08-31 03:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is so sad..i know u cant be staying with that kind of person for the rest of your life.u got to do something.honestly for me u need proffesional help.since u are christian and believe in God so prayer will be really helpful.and just tell him nicely that u guys should stay separate for a while and see how is it
2006-08-31 03:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by teruterubozu 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋