My ex and I broke up a week before his birthday. We were together for a year and eight months. Although we both agreed that the break up should happen due to us both not feeling the same about each other, I'm finding it hard to get over him. We parted last Sunday, and his birthday is this coming Sunday. I'm having doubts on whether I should call him.
2006-08-31 02:51:16 · 14 answers · asked by BEAUTIFUL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I believe you should contact him and wish him a Happy Birthday. However I think it would be better to send him best wishes on his special day either by email or a text message. It sounds to me that you are not over him, and hearing his voice over the phone may be something that you can't handle fully right now. It's just too soon. But please send him an email or an online birthday card that you can personalize. Either of those would be best and I'm sure he'll appreciate the sentiment. Good luck.
2006-08-31 03:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Calling him would be a nice gesture, but that should be the only reason you are doing it. Don't think calling him will change anything though. You both had reasons for your break-up and those aren't going to change in a week, if ever. Break-ups are hard to deal with and you just have to give yourself a little bit of time to accept it. Good luck.
2006-08-31 02:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a nice card. Then there is no chance you will turn into a blubbering ex on the phone. You still wished him a happy birthday and you don't come out of it looking foolish.
2006-08-31 02:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by rchbrk6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call him or send him a nice text message. It's not like you've been broken up for a long time.
2006-08-31 02:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Yen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah call him with a friendly manner..dont open anything about your broken relationships or some sort.move on please.being friendly doesnt hurt but know your limits...and remember there are lots of fish in the sea.hehe
2006-08-31 02:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by bisaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud definately call him.. coz u were together for some time and u parted amicably.. my ex called me to wish me 3 days after i dumped him.
2006-08-31 07:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by cranberries 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him
2006-08-31 03:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You haven't even given yourself time to get over him. Every time you have contact with him, it will set you back.
2006-08-31 02:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by T Time 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do it. it is obviously a concern of yours. it would probably be better if you could leave a message so he doesn't get the wrong idea
2006-08-31 02:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Robert A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would text him and leave it at that.. if he replies, maybe you could take it further
but you don't wanna look desperate by making sure you call
2006-08-31 02:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋