He is 38. She is 29.
He stay in high end apartment, has a 2nd private semi-D as investment, a stable career business of his own. Driving normal Jap car.
He is caring and doting towards me. Giving me whatever i request for, I am blessed i know.
His look average, only problem is he is losing hair.
I am try to overlook his wealth, in search in my heart if i can accept his proposal ? As i know having wealth but if i don't feel for him i wouldn't be happy neither. In my heart i could accept his characters, but the only things is the "Fur" on his head :)
Am i very stupid to be bother by this ? sigh...
Gals, will you marry a man like him ?
Give me some clue.. Thanks for the help.
2006-08-31 02:38:02 · 20 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For info, i do have feelings for him. That's is why i am in delimma, and wondering if i am worry for nothing.
I am very sure, he will give me the kind of love and concern i have always wanted. For money issues, there are always up and down in business so i am well prepare for worst. And i have actually wanted to stay in a govt house instead of private. If we were to married, i have request to him to put the 2 private house on rent.
2006-08-31 02:50:31 · update #1
I am worrying alot of things, another issue is if i were to give birth 1 or 2 years down. He will be in 42 or 3.
If my child is 10, he will be in .... Sigh..
2006-08-31 02:55:33 · update #2
If he treats you the way you like to be treated, his head should not be an issue. It is not easy finding a man that treats you with respect. Stop wasting his time and stop using him for his wealth. You could also have him save his head bald maybe that will help you. Some men just look better bald.
2006-08-31 02:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the problem,
You never once say how you feel about him or how he makes your feel. You are looking at stability which is great but will you be happy. Can you live with him for the rest of your life. In ten years you may go bald, or get sick can you depend on him to be there for you. You can't go by the hair. You have to go by the heart. Be aware that he may not be the one for you and that you are just using the hair as an excuse. Money is great, but love and commitment, and happiness is better. :)
2006-08-31 02:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your trying to overlook his wealth...i think it's what's holding your interest. Read your post.....you listed his assets before his qualities. That says something! Love isn't enough to hold a marriage together....you need so much more. But without it, you don't have a chance.....especially if money is the attraction. You'll eventually end up feeling bought and paid for. My advice....earn you own money and find a man you actually feel passionate about.
2006-08-31 02:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look on the bright side, while he is loosing his hair to give you the love and luxury of life, you are actually in luxury
as they say, out of 10 bald men, 9 is rich.
as men ages and gets better in their career and wealth, they begin to loose hair.
even if you get a furry monkey now, in time to come he will loose hair but the big difference is that he is going to be loosing hair while you are both sratching for monies and pain and divorce etc. and by then who knows, you may be loosing more hair and becomes the full moon instead
love a man for his heart
love a man for his part
love a man for he loves you thee
rather than to marry for sex and becomes another monkey
2006-08-31 13:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you were truly in love with him, the looks or lack of hair wouldn't matter at all.
You already know the answer to this question, even if you marry him you will be very unhappy and it will end badly.
Find your true love and be happy. You will know when you find him.
2006-08-31 02:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is only one answer to that question, and that's a question.. Do you love him? It is really that simple Do you want to spend the rest of you life with him? Does being with him make you happy?
Don't settle just beause he's a good deal, this will only make both of you miserable in the end..
2006-08-31 02:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by Biology mayorgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look your either shallow or your not. We can't answer this question regarding this man. I don't know what I would do because I have married for love before and I always said if I married again it would be for other reasons. THATS me! If you want to marry for love this is not your man. If you have another agenda...this is your man...what are you going to do?
2006-08-31 02:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are hung up on his bald spot then you are looking for a reason not to marry him. Ask why, is it intimidation of his money, no love for him or are you just scared to give over yourself.
2006-08-31 02:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by lisa m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love, the only thing I can think of is if he drinks as much vodka as you.
Don't marry him.
2006-08-31 02:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont sound like you want to, so its not up to us to decide
also if the loss of hair bothers you, tell him to shave and go bald, there are a lot of sexy bald guys
2006-08-31 02:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋