ok let me give all the details first so everything is clear, i really like my gf she is great she loves to fool around, we havnt had sex yet but every thing elts we have done and do often, i buy her stuff and take her out and treat her with the up most respect and do little things threw out the day to remind her how much i care about her, in fact i really cant keep her off of me now i think of it, but she give me hand jobs and stuff but refuses to give me head, she says it will take time considering she had a bad experiance with her ex, but i go down on her all the time and it smells like sh@* and taste like moldy fish and i have told her about it but she will not clean, i have heard other guys say im being to nice and i need to "man" up and tell her to do it go its over or to go find another women that will give me what i want, or am i being a jurk to her feelings or should i man up and get what i want
2006-08-31 02:33:04 · 7 answers · asked by armorefelix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are going down on her, then she needs to return the favor. It is only fair. My advice is, tell her to clean up and if she wants you to go down on her anymore then she needs to pleasure you too. If she doesn't, then leave her. You could find another woman who loves to suck.
2006-08-31 02:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by InsufficientLoser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, you shouldn't be anywhere near her private area if it's not too hygienic most odorous vagina's are caused by Bacterias as for some ST D's as well! Second, you could jerk yourself off so if I were you I would sustain as long as possible from going down on her as opposed to her to jerk you off. Let her know politely that she is very strong and that you suggest that she washes with some Summer's Eve Feminine wash (buy it for her). Lastly, I would advise the both of you to get tested and share the results with in one another just to be on the safe side. Also, seriously dude I know you can do better than a female who doesn't take care of themself!!!!
2006-08-31 09:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by souljagirpart2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eugh too much information! Ok the fact that she doesnt keep herself clean is offputting enough - the fact that you're still willing to go there is just repulsive! Make a stand - tell her until she gets to know a bar of soap that you are NOT going there. Oral sex can be bad enough - but going down on what you've just described is sickening.
2006-08-31 09:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It smells like ma-bey someone else has been there done that!!! You should go out and but her a douche and some soap and make a fun little game of it.... And as for her not going down on you , then you don't do her any favors till you get one in return.... Good luck on everything!!!!
2006-08-31 09:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by brutalA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her how much you love her, and explain that she will need to keep herself clean if she wants you to go down on her. Or stop going down on her altogether and wait for her to ask you why.
This must be what the song: "Love stinks!" means. lol lol lol lol
Good Luck.
2006-08-31 09:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're wrong and you're friends are way off. forcing someone to do something they don't want is called harassment or rape. if you can't deal w/ her then find someone else. and p.s. it wouldn't be manning up it'd be you being an asshole
2006-08-31 09:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are BOTH wrong. ewwww. she should be clean and you should never give someone an ultimatum to perform sex acts for you. you both need to grow up.
2006-08-31 09:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by hiddenhotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋