Everytime when i call my boyfriend´s brother he said i am afraid becoz when my br saw your photos each time he passes some commments which i dont like .Does he not trust his br or me.
2006-08-31 02:32:57 · 17 answers · asked by twisted 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say it was his brother, maybe there is a history there that you don't know of........i would just make it clear that he is the guy for you and tell him even if his brother does like you, you don't like him, abit of reassurance should work.....good luck!
2006-08-31 02:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by Pinkgem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm what *kind* of photos are we talking about here? Because I really think if they are kind of suggestive that it's probably crossing the line for your boyfriends brother to be looking at them.
I think that otherwise, this is a problem between brothers and you should stay out of it. You haven't done anything bad or wrong unless you have been showing naked pictures of yourself to his brother. If you are calling him you should think about whether what you say is appropriate or not.
Jealousy arouses when people invade and inhabit eachothers personal and intimate space. Everybody has their own personal limit of what they regard as an acceptable boundry. You need to realise what other people's are and act accordingly
You should tell your boyfriend how this is making you feel, perhaps he can discuss it with his brother. This is a case of people over stepping the acceptable boundries, your boyfriend needs to tell his brother that his comments make him feel uncomfortable, because he may not know that what he is doing is upsetting him.
Either way I think you shouldn't let this seem to be a reflection on how much he trusts you or not. It would seem to be a problem between brothers and has little to do with you. None the less you should be mindful of whether your behaviour is appropriate not in your eyes but other peoples, you could be communicating signals to your boyfriend's brother that you really are not intending to send out!
take care
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2006-08-31 09:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by lady_sephie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might feel inferior to his brother and be worried that you are going to go off with him because he is better ..
Or this may have happened before ...
Why do you call his brother anyway? Surely you are adding fuel to the fire ..let him do it .. it is HIS brother after all.
2006-08-31 10:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriends issue is with his brother not nessiarily you. I would speak to you boyfriend and tell him he shouldnt feel threatend and he's the only one for you.
2006-08-31 10:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by clairie1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men generally trust their partners it's the people around their partners they worry about
2006-08-31 09:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, why are you calling his brother? Maybe you just have a guilty conscience.
2006-08-31 09:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by rchbrk6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you calling his brother?
2006-08-31 09:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by hoboken134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you calling your boyfriends brother in the first place???
I have no clue - sorry
2006-08-31 10:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand your question BUT WHY are you calling his brother?
2006-08-31 09:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by crrankin22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you calling his brother anyway??
2006-08-31 10:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋