2006-08-31 02:15:14 · 12 answers · asked by lisa9479 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not what we think, it's what you think.
Have you talked to him about children? About how you both see disciplining your children? About the checkbook, who's in charge of it? About what you want out of life? About what your goals are, i.e. house, degree, pool, new car, etc? About your families? Have you met each other's families? About religion? About which religion(s) to raise the children in? About conflict and how you handle it? About who's job it is to take care of the house, what chores belong to whom? Plus anything else you can think of that might affect the outcome of your future together.
You gotta have the talk.
2006-08-31 02:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Soon or not is up to you to judge..how well you know him, how much you trust him?How confident are you feeling for him to be your husband?
I have a friend who got married to her bf of 2 years and they knew each other for 12 years before being couples...but still their marriage didn't work out..Her case made me feel that in life, you will never know what will happen in future..So there's no soon or later to get married..as long as you feel comfortable or happy with the proposal then happily be your bride!..
2006-08-31 02:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too soon.
You say you have "known him", which is way, way different from "have dated him".
Date him for a year; learn to understand his nuances; learn about his habits, etc... Otherwise, you are tkaing a gamble. A gamble that often ends in divorce.
2006-08-31 02:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really me and my fiance now when we first started dating we known each other about 5 days when we started dating and then we were engaged 2 weeks after that just go with your heart if you really love him and want to marry him take a chance i did and i am still with him and more in love with him than ever
2006-08-31 02:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u have had time to get to know 1 another, but if ur not feeling it then tell him that its too soon, if not and hes been good to u then congrat go jump the broom
2006-08-31 02:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself sometime, before you get fully commited to him. Find out if he is the man you have been looking for all your life.....
2006-08-31 02:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Natasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say so....way too soon. Give it a yr. or so. Whats the rush?
2006-08-31 02:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Gez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah!! its better to know more each other go out more often,enjoy life!!! be carefull u should think million times before doing any move,,,make sure he is the right one,,,,then thats it makes your right descision..........goodluck!!!
2006-08-31 02:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by sexxie2777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how you feel about this. do you love him? are you willing to spend your life with him? if you do, then congratulations
2006-08-31 02:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by therifleman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how you feel about him.
2006-08-31 02:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋