We met online when he wanted to get some information regarding my country as he was planning to come here & "marry" a girl he loves after a month. We started writing eachother to-and-fro and exchanged far too many private staff in too little a time. I gave him my contact detailes because he wanted to send me something thankful for all the assistance I gave him. And he end up calling me 3 times a day (sometimes 7). Around the 2nd week, i've asked him about the whereabouts of the girl and he has said they weren't in touch anymore ("something must've been lost in translation"). I was surprised but .. let's just say.. she didn't bother me that much. I've not dated for a while and I guess I just didn't care. However, I'm being bothered by it now coz I can't help noticing that some of the things he says don't add up. He avoids most of the questions i raise about her. I see him online even when I'm not around. He is saying he won't be able to make it here until October 2007, etc.
2006-08-31 01:59:15 · 16 answers · asked by Biqo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
am unable to rule him out as a liar b/c he's honest abt most of the things abt him (that he doesn't have much money; wasn't tall, dark & handsome; that he's got self esteem problems; a difficult childhood; is insecure). Add that to his phone calls; his crazy impulsivness, the fact that he loves my body; thinks he doesn't deserve me... & you'll see why i'm stuck. I mean, i love this guy, however messed up this relationship seems to sound & am ready to give him the benefit of the d. Because we all "lie" at a certain point in our lives (atleast to get those we wanted)?! However, I sometimes wonder "what if this guy is a player?". I mean, I can tell players pretty easily & he seems to be really very genuine. Nobody can be that good!! He's also confessed to hiding things from me, that i won't have loved him if i knew them & has promised to get around to tell me. Only yesterday, he said he's about to "drop a bomb abt the girl" but i was 2 busy to listen. So do you think he's genuine? or not?
2006-08-31 02:16:46 · update #1
Well....idk i think you should do what you want to do...you wanna be with him then do so....But remember to be careful to avoid any problems....well idk but to me it sounds like he's obsessed with you...But if he says he loves you and you think he loves you then go on....but be careful!!! i cant say that enough to people and its sad to see what happens to them...but I'm only here to warn you not to tell you what to do...that's up to you...Let me put myself in your shoes so to speak...If i were you in this situation i would get another yahoo id or from where ever you guys met....and start to talk to him...be patient and do not ask too many questions at first because remember....you still don't know him...supposedly...when you see that the time is right to act on the situation then act on it...ask him questions..get answers..Find out as much possible about this guy before he bring up the subject of wanting to meet you in person...and when 2007 comes and he want to meet you....Meet in a public place!!!....please ...in a public place where there's more people around and not just the two of you...maybe he'll want to take you to some where special and private...don't do that....if you don't want to... go some where special but public.....he's either very very in love with you or very obsessed with you...either way ...be careful... follow your insticts always!! and take care...have a good day :) If you think he's genuine then im no one to vote him genuine or not...for you.... :)
2006-08-31 03:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy© 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
certain I knew he ought to proceed the patriot act as maximum of that's everlasting and cant get replaced. a million. some provisions must be renewed or they expire. Congress votes for the re authorizations and then Obama indicators or vetoes them. there have been in simple terms some changes to the provisions that were renewed. they are truly similar so I dont comprehend why you're saying Obama has higher that's scope in leaps and limits? are you able to describe? 2. As senator, He voted adversarial to re authorization of a provision the first time, notwithstanding the invoice changed into changed with some secure guards provisions and he then voted for it. As potus, he has not pushed for letting the warrantless wiretap provision expire or threatened to veto it. something a lot of human beings were disillusioned about.
2016-11-23 15:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little off to me. Back off for awhile and see what happens. He sounds like an internet casanova. They are abundant online. The anonymity gives them the courage to do what they normally wouldn't do in actual life. If he does come over for a visit, take a friend along with you when you meet him in a public place. Right now he is a character in internetland. Listen to your gut instinct, it is usually right on the money.
Good luck
2006-08-31 02:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful of the internet! what you see and what you hear is not always what you get,I will use this as an example: You wanna take a swin in a small pond,the owner said it has small fish in it but they will not bite or bother you,but he forgot to tell you about the big Alligator that also resides in the pond, you see what I am trying to tell you? Hope this helps
Dave
2006-08-31 02:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go with your instincts. If you feel that something isn't adding up, then it probably isn't. It sounds like he's not being honest about something, and that's no way to start a relationship.
2006-08-31 02:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not give him any more information! If it seems suspicious, you need to respect your instincts. Discourage his contact, don't answer and just ignore him. He will eventually lose interest and turn to someone else.
These type of people can be very dangerous.
2006-08-31 02:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When will people get it through their heads meeting people on line is a VERY BAD idea? Sounds like a flake to me.
2006-08-31 02:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are answering this yourself, if you think things are not adding up then trust your instincts, please start dating again offline and not fall for that online bs. sounds like my kids father with 4 different internet girls he claims to love and move to another country to marry them. its a scam sister, don't believe the hype
2006-08-31 03:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by needtheinfo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not genuine something is going on and you need to find a way to make him stop calling you because eventually something that you do not want will happen....
2006-08-31 02:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT talk to him anymore......he's not genuine and he will do the same thing to you that he did to the other girl.
2006-08-31 02:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by ravred300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋