we got on really well ive been away for 2 months, we text occasionally .now im going back, shall i call him or wait for him to call me, he has my nymber and knows when i arrive. ??
2006-08-31 01:42:48 · 31 answers · asked by laydee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
geez most of you are so shocked with me, i slept with him on first date, he did it too!
and so what i dont usually but it felt right,
so there..
2006-08-31 01:50:38 · update #1
Once your back and settled back into your routine What is wrong with calling him , and saying,"Hey I'm back in town, want to hit the coffee house,"? Keeping it breezy doesn't make you sound desperate or lonely. A lot can happen over a two month time-frame so I would keep it sounding neutral and ambiguous until you see how things go.... that way at least, worse case scenario, you'll end up with a good friend, instead of a bitter enemy
Just an add-on here......for all you heaven bound pious individuals casting stones at this girl for coming clean about having sex on a first date Let it go, what is it to you if she did or not, that wasn't even part of her question....Why put your two cents in if it is only going to hurt some ones feelings.
2006-08-31 01:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Erin O. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call him. It sounds like you really want to get back together with him so why leave it to chance. I guess you could try to play hard to get but with the relationship so new and the fact you were away for two months he might think you are playing too hard to get. I am sure he can't wait to see you either. Good luck and hope everything works out.
2006-08-31 01:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 00:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's interesting that calling him is a decision you need help with, but deciding to sleep with him on the first date was easy for you. Call the man if you like him.
2006-08-31 01:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to call..but make sure he knows which day or what time you are coming back...Just a little hint for him will do..The rest is up to him...
If he look for you then he's somehow interested in you (perhaps wants sex)..i don't know..i just don't fancy to have sex on 1st date..i find it will give people an impression that you are 'easy'...
2006-08-31 01:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite the bullet and call him, make out like you werent sure if you told him when you'd arrive back and ask him straight out if he would like to continue from where ye left off or has he prehaps met someone else in your absence.
2006-08-31 01:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to call him and let him know you're back but sleeping with him on the first date was not cool.
2006-08-31 01:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give it a little time to see if he called me first. I'd say at least a few days. If he doesn't, call him if you'd like. I just wouldn't want to seem too over excited to talk to him.
2006-08-31 01:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time... you just got back... settle in and let him call you... after you've settled in and he still hasn't called... call him... he may have been busy.... but don't continuously call if he doesn't answer... once is enough... he has caller ID.. right?... so just take it easy and go with the flow...
2006-08-31 01:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by carmel_gurlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait for him to call you because if you call him that makes you like you are way to into him you need to play hard to get and let him be the one to call. If he really cares about you he will pick up the phone and call.
2006-08-31 01:46:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋