The other day i over heared my son tell his cousin about a girl he like. He said he never notice he before but now she have those lady lump in front he notice her more. how do i talk to him about girls.
2006-08-31 01:36:39 · 18 answers · asked by bETtEr ThINg 2 CoMe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
i think its best for dad to come into action now, especially if he wants to ask any questions as he may feel a little uncomfortable asking his mum and u may feel weird as well. as he is only 12, its normal for these feelings to arrive but ensure that he knows exactly whats going on. make sure his dad tells him what this means and that it is important that he respects girls. at the same time, make sure he learns proper terms and how to act in front of the oppositte sex. but u dont have to go too far either, as he is only 12 and will probably learn most of these things later on in life. also make sure that his dad tries to get closer to him, because once hormones come into play, many new little problems may arise, and having ur mum/dad to come to is always the best option. make sure he knows that. other than that, you have to let time show whats gonna happen, and be rational and teach ur son the right values. thats all you can really do as a parent...
2006-08-31 01:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very good age for you to talk to him about girls and sex and all of that. Teach him the proper terms for breasts to begin with, although I guess he heard "lady lumps" from that song. Teach him about respecting himself and respecting girls and what is acceptable and what is not. It's not too early to talk to him about sex and pregnancy and how the consequences of his actions can affect the rest of his life and a girl's life. And while you are at it, talk to him about drugs and drinking, kids are often exposed to drugs or drug talk from peers at this age. Make sure he has the right information and knows what you expect of him so he has the tools to make the right decisions. Good Luck.
2006-08-31 01:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open, it's a very natural thing...ask him if he has any questions and explain to him that girls are not to be treated badly, but to respect (and vice versa). For example, just because she has grown boobs, doesn't mean they have taken over her brain. I don't expect a 12 year old fully get this concept, many adult men still struggle, but it is an important point!
2006-08-31 02:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by chicgirl639 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be up front with him. I was 7 when I got the "talk." My mom walked in on me arranging my Barbie and Ken dolls in pairs. She didn't use dirty words, she was very clear and my curiosity was satisfied. You will be glad if you do it, so don't let him hear misinformation from somewhere else. Good luck.
2006-08-31 01:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son is 13 and has had sex ed. in school the past 2 years. What I am trying to do is teach him to be respectful of women and girls and teach him to be the kind of man you will be pround of. I am also teaching him to cook and do laundry, dishes etc.
2006-08-31 02:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by forestgreen33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask him what does he already know about girls and tell him you want to give him a little insight or if his daddy is around let him talk to him.
2006-08-31 01:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by RoseAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't wanna look too intrested, he'll never tell u...just talk to him about sex, (believe me...12 yr. olds know a lot more than u think) and how not to have it till he's married
i think it's something u should leave between him and his cousin....no kid wants to talk to their parent(s) about their crush....if he wants to talk to u about it, then offer advice. if he starts to get rude like saying absurd body comments to women...then tell him grls r ppl, not objects....
2006-08-31 01:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by [dANiiE♥♫]™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now what in god's name did you think was going to happen when he reached this age it's called hormones and puberty.... Do you need a refresher course in sex ed...
2006-08-31 03:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by rochelle s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to the mall and notice his attention.
Let him freely describe what he think and
correct him for better understanding.
Just listen to his beat more carefully.
Surely, he wouldn't give you hard time!
2006-08-31 01:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by Pudin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be very honest. Tell him its normal to be attracted to girls, and teach him to be respectful and treat girls well.
2006-08-31 01:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋