and now ive just discovered she has been cheating on me with my boss for 6 months would it be harsh of me to want to kill both of them? i am permanantly scarred because of this two timing *****?
2006-08-31 01:29:47 · 22 answers · asked by John C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, not really.
2006-08-31 01:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by rocco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting to kill them would be a natural reaction, but don't do it. It won't take away your scars. Your heart will heal in time and the scars will be a reminder of what a noble thing you did. You will find love again in spite of your scars. A good woman will see only what is in your heart. I have scars on my face, feet and hands from a fire when I was 4. So I know what I am saying is true. I have lived a good life and am loved for who I am inside. You will be too.
2006-08-31 01:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by pat_whitten2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see your moral dilemma here. Now, I don't think it would be unreasonable for you to 'want to kill her or him,' but it would be 'very WRONG' to act upon those feelings.
Sorry, but the adage of 'Two wrongs NOT making a Right' springs to mind.
Your standpoint at the present appears to give you the moral high ground. Any course of such action will reverse this position. And then you would pay for the consequences ...but at a much higher premium.
If you story is true, then I'm sorry that you were lead into this situation and the consequences of it.
Best of luck.
Sash.
2006-08-31 02:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for u but pliz just try to avoid to kill both of them or anything and i know for u its hard to take it since u saved her and u were burnt badly .My advice to u now is remember everything happens for a reason and i am sure there is a solution if this girl is truly for u but dont over do it .
2006-08-31 01:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by twisted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god you poor thing, how could she i would be extremely tempted to kill them both, she has ruined everything, i would be careful of the consequences that could happen though and think is it worth it, the mature thing to do is walk away and move on with your life, but i know it is hard you to take your mind off the anger you mst be feeling take up boxing or something find someway of releasing it, i think you are very brave to even be talking about respect to you, i'm sure you are lovely and the right girl is out there for you.
2006-09-04 01:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by hanspam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? how did she get to know your boss!
Id get rid forget them both they deserve each other!
And having a scar is not that bad a lot of girls dig scars!
2006-08-31 01:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by princesssp8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has been cheating on you with your boss for as long as six months, leave her as far as you can. To kill them both is illegal.
2006-08-31 01:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by pyj 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a special person, sending you love : ) move on someone special is waiting for you dont denign them the happieness of having a special person like you in there lives, because of some two timing waste of skin. trust me .
2006-09-03 13:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by dorisesworld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did she feel the need to cheat with your boss???
dump her, she obviously doesn't love or respect you... move on and hope that you can find someone that looks past your disfigurement at the person inside...
2006-08-31 01:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be well gutted! Get rid of her and move on! She is not worth it! Obviously youre a better person than she will ever be!
2006-08-31 01:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by AJay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the bigger person
she'll always know you saved her, and she has to live with being a slag to the one who saved her.
She'll suffer believe me.
plus, people who cheat keep on cheating, her life ahead is going to be miserable, you are better off without her
2006-08-31 01:37:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋