i like this girl that Ive liked for 4 years now she really pretty should i ask her out?

Question

there is this girl kayla i really like her but i dont no if she likes me but we are really good friends we once were dating but her friend said that she shouldnt go out with me but now me and her friend are good friends i wanna ask her out again but i dont want her to say no and us not be good friends anymore just because of that
should i ask her out ?

Answer 1

If u truly love her u shuld ask her out dun ever missed tis chance if not u will regret it forever.........

Answer 2

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-Doctor! I have a serious problem, I can never remember what i just said.
-When did you first notice this problem?
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A guy calls his vet and says "What should I do with my cat?Vet says "What do you mean? Guy says "I had a leak in my lawnmowers gas tank and the cat drank the gas. Then the cat began to run around and around the yard, climbed a tree. then fell out of the tree stiff. Vet says "Is the cat dead? Guy replies "nope he ran out of gas.

Last of all just want to tell you that whatever you do, just don't give up. Also you must love and care for the people around you. In that way they will also show you the love that you show to them. Just be yourself and happy everyday. Wish you all the best and good luck!!

I think you should ask her out. You are the man. Man should make the first move.

Answer 3

Yes, there are a few ways to think of this....

In 10 years' time, which will you think back on and regret more: Asking her out or not asking her out?
OR
If you ask her out, you will get to date her or you will not get to date her. If you do not ask her out, you will definitely not get to date her. Which offers better outcomes?

My advice is don't come on too strong and declare your love or anything like that. Ask her if she'd consider dating. If the answer is no, play it off like it's no big deal. If the friendship is to survive the "no" response, you've gotta play it cool like it doesn't really matter and you were just curious.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

I don't understand what the hell does her friend has to do with the 2 of you. Why should she say that she shouldn't go out with you? Who cares about what her friend thinks?
Ask her out. Don't be afraid of losing her. You can always ask her to be friends like before if she refuses to go out in a date with you.
Ask her out. I think she likes you, cause if she didn't she wouldn't have dated you before and she wouldn't go on being your friend again.

So my dear, be courageous and ask her out. Everything will be ok.

Answer 6

Yes

Answer 7

just talk to her let her know how you feel, and you don't wanna change or ruin your friendship if she feels differently, and ask her if you been friends with her that long she should be a true friend and not change even if she doesnt feel the same

Answer 8

Hey Zack,,,,,,, look pardner,,,,,,,, you got to ask... stand up,, look her in the eye,, and say,,, Hey,,, I like you,, lets go do some pizza and a movie .... or what ever..... and don't beat around the bush about it,,,,,

Good luck

Answer 9

Hey bro I saw your question and I wanted to answer it...I think I may help you..

Let me introduce myself...Im BlackHat...and some of the information that I am going to share with you is credited to all those people that took the time to teach people like myself how be successful with women...

So you want to ask your friend, who you know of for 4 years, out on a date?

My flat out answer is..It depends!!

Well, women have a tendecy to like guys as a friend, or put you in the 'friend zone' when you protray yourself as a little brother rather than a potential lover..

Well allow me to clarify myself...

What are trates of a "little brother"?

First, you are too nice, you give in to all the things that she asks of you without question...and a lot of times you do things for her without her asking her and you give her things as if you and her are already in an intimate relationship...but you're not..

Another attribute of a "little brother" is that you call her almost everyday..talk about things that literally girls talk about to eachother...and you are talking about the same crap..

I think you get the idea of what a "little brother" is

Now let me tell you the attributes of a "potential lover"!!

A potential lover is: Confident, funny, unpredictable, mysterious, curtious but not a man who lets people walk all over him..you draw the line...a little demanding but in a balanced way..not overly demanding...

Basically a potential lover...is A MAN!!!

Here is a concept of Nice Guys Vs. Jerks to clarify a little of what I am saying

(credited to FastSeduction)

"The debate of "nice guys vs. jerks" has been raging for quite a long time. The nature of being a "nice guy", however, is commonly misunderstood.

It is believed that being polite, considerate, friendly, tender, romantic, etc. is what being a "nice guy" is all about and thus those qualities should be avoided....

As it is the "jerk", the rude, the inconsiderate, the impolite, the rough guy who always gets the girl while the "nice guy" is waiting outside in the pouring rain with flowers in his hand.

It doesn't mean that women prefer rude over polite, inconsiderate over considerate, etc. It all becomes clear when we look at a very important issue often overlooked when trying to define what makes the "jerks" beat the "nice guys" when it comes to getting the girls.....

It is sexuality....

The "jerks" are not afraid to show that they are sexual beings, while the "nice guys" hide their sexuality as a part of their agenda of being friendly, polite, and courteous towards women.

Peta, Clifford's Seduction Newsletter: "It dawned on me as it has, that the androgyny is key. Women fall for bastards because they don't turn off the sexuality.. "nice" guys think women will be terrified of their sexuality, so they turn it off and all they get is women responding to their androgyny [sending all nice guys to "Let's Just Be Friends-Land]"

So now that you know the concept of the Nice Guys Vs. The Jerks...

Now lets look at the good traits the you should have...to be successful with women..friend or not...

(credited to Fastseduction)

According to some people (who have been successful with women for many years), women obviously want a man with these most important traits:

confidence
humour
smile
well groomed / good looks
ability to create an emotional connection / a feeling of romance
In addition to that, being a successful guy includes:

being patient
being persistent
being comfortable just going up and talking to a new woman
finding opportunities in situations where you before did not believe there would be
being sensitive to how she feels/responds and modifying your approach accordingly
knowing how to talk to a woman to build more rapport with her
knowing how to talk to a woman to make her start thinking in romantic directions

Having mastered all of the above, these will add the final touch:

mirror her physically
notice her trance words, remember and use them
rephrase everything she says and feed it back to her
anchor all good feelings
don't argue with her, be very understanding, deeply understanding - this can help create an immense rapport
use presuppositions to direct her actions
have and keep good eye contact - also helps to create an immense rapport
touch her-in a teasing way
and always start with the cutest girl around:)

One very successful guys said: "Remember, chit chatting about clubs and work school is something she can do with anyone, but someone who can lead her into a state of arousal or at least romantic interest is hard to come by. You have to set yourself apart from the other guys by minimising the small talk and asking questions which can lead her into a romantic state."


Keep those good traits in mind...

Now one thing I will let you be aware of is that you should not immediately start using everything I told you all at once..

The reason why is that the people you know, friends, family, and people who just know you...will know that you are being fake and trying to be someone that they know that you are not..

So try to apply what I told you little by little..so that way by the time you know it the things you learned from this e-mail will be so natural to you that the people that you know will tell that you changed but they will see it as if you have matured or grown up..

Now lastly use everything you learned in a balanced way...I don't want to write everything to you at this moment but if you are interested in learning more about what I know..I will be happy to assist in helping..just ask me any question and I will answer them accordingly...

Best of luck to you...

BlackHat

Answer 10

i do not think you will ever know until you try...i think you should ask her if she would like to start dating again....just say you have been thinking about it and you would like to start dating again if she wants to but you do not want to ruin your friendship....