oh i broke up with my bf the other day and we did it nicely. Now he is tellin everyone that i have cut myself because of him and that im ****** up, so is his mate. I wanna know EXACTLY waht he has been sayin but he wont reply to my txts. Im not the one in the wrong and he was the one that hurt me. He told me he cares but he cant be with me. Why is he sayin all that crap when he is meant to care. Why say you care when he is not with me any more?
2006-08-31 00:41:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank u everyone, ur really helpin me to see that he is a loser and prob lost one of the best things that has happened to him. Its not just me sayin it cuz he actually said that i was one of the best things that has ever happened to him
2006-08-31 00:48:57 · update #1
This dude obviously seems to be in denial about his feelings for you. He still likes you and does not know how to deal with the break-up, so he resorted to hurting you to cover up his feelings. Dudes will be dudes, they don't like their ego's getting hurt really. If you want to clear things up with him then I suggest that you go and speak to him in person and set the record straight. The key here is communication and don't blame him as he will just get all defensive and things can turn ugly. So, go and talk to him. You never know, you guys might just end up together again.
2006-08-31 00:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are experiencing SUCKS but think about this for a minute....it is what got me through a difficult time similar to yours.....and it became my personal mantra.....
"You can tell more about a person from what they say about others than from what others say about them."
In other words....if someone is talking smack about another person (especially someone they once professed to love) I'm not sure that I would want to be around this person no matter how nice everyone else says they are, as I am seeing first hand what a jerk they are! See where this is going?
Good luck and screw him! Stop text messaging him immediately and hold that beautiful head of yours high! You broke up with him in a classy, dignified way and now he is trying to hurt you....so maybe the breakup wasn't as nice as you had thought and he is lashing out.
Pity him, but don't try to talk to him or ask him to stop because for as long as he gets a response from you or a reaction from you he will continue to talk ill about you. Be a strong proud woman and move on!
2006-08-31 00:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by MaHaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was using you all the time.
Now without a cute piece on the side he feels a loss of status and he is striking back at the person responsible... and of course there is no way it could be him.
Next time chose a bf who is a bit more mature.
2006-08-31 00:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he said such things is to confuse everybody that you are the one who is creating problem for him and he have no choice but to break up with you. Whether he care for you or not, time will be able to tell. if he can go around telling people such things do you think you will still believe what he say in future
2006-08-31 00:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex need to mature up. Do not bother with what he is saying bout you coz one day he is gonna shut it. You need to focus on other things coz he probably regrets not having you and yes he is a big time jerk. I know you deserve much much better.
2006-08-31 01:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show evry1 that ur stll whole. And move on. Ppl will realize sooner or later whose wrong. If they don't atlest u kno ur right.
2006-08-31 00:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by xacarob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, men aren't what they used to be. Most of them have used at least one girl in their lifetime. They don't seem to care what they say or do, they have no consience. He won't be the first jerk you meet. Get used to it.
2006-08-31 00:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expensive pal, grew to become into particularly disappointed approximately your difficulty yet.... could be he o.k. knows which you like him... & he would not desire to have an affair with you,,, on account that, he could be firlting with different ladies for relaxing... the place he won't feed you with the comparable spoon thinking that he would not desire to place you in hardship...
2016-10-01 03:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go knocking to his door and talk to him since he doesn't reply to your text. He is probably fooling and trying to hurt you.
2006-08-31 00:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by space 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BF are stupid. Don't worry about it. You know the truth, you can't do much for what others believe.
2006-08-31 00:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by lschuler22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋