give me a reason why life is good...............?

Question

after a **** few months, i need some inspiration. why is life good and why does everything go wrong sometimes?

Answer 1

Things go wrong to keep you flexible, adaptable, and surviving.

Life is good because you are capable of all three.

Beyond that, life is good because the sun always rises...always sets...time doesn't stand still. And in time, things get better.

Keep a positive attitude...
think positive and say positive things...

and be well

Answer 2

well everything does go wrong sometimes because life is a *****.
But life is good
think of your favourite smells, foods, the people you hang out with, your family even if they're annoying, early memories, being in love, watching the game that your team wins or getting your hair done and feeling so great afterwards. Think of the sky on a sunny day and the trees when the leaves are on them. Think of chocolate or coffee or whatever your into. Something will remind you of what is good.
It may seem like a cliche. I'm not all sunshine and roses but you have to take each step at a time and tell yourself that it will get better. Whoever hassles you fcuk them. No one is there to cheer you up tha t job is up to you. Don't wait for things to happen either cos whether you like it or not the longer the time you just sit there waiting the longer the time that you've wasted when it could have been done by now.
Life is good. Don't mope it'll only make matters worse. Try to cheer up. Watch some comedy film. It might help.
Sorry I can't do much more.

Answer 3

Give me a reason why life ain't good......?......I'm sure you have a bunch, but trust me, you can turn each one into a reason for "why life IS good"....it just depends on how you choose to approach life, and the problems that appear in your life
Tell me can you honestly say that sometime "EVERYTHING goes wrong".......if you would be just a little more attentive at things around you, you would see that you would find reasons for joy......For instance, the fact that you were able to open your eyes this morning, you were able to breathe fresh air, you probably felt the sun's rays warming you and probably ignored them, you smelt the perfume of the flowers, and green grass that the gentle wind brought to you, and also ignored them......there are people all around you who care for you and love you and wish you were happy.......You are healthy......and, not at last,.....you were able to survey these difficult obstacles that appeared in your life (you know what they say....."what doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger").....these are all reasons for you to be happy, to love life...
I think of the problems that come into my life, that they are challenges I must overcome, and the harder it is to do that, the happier I will be when I will succeed......It kind of gives me the feeling that I am a winner....
And, anyway, tell me.....if you didn't know what is like to be sad, how would you know when you're happy, would you enjoy those things that make you happy just as much if you did not know that you will not always feel this way.....Just remember that after every night, no matter how dark, a new light full day will rise,and after each day, the night will come again.....That's just the way things are.....and I think it is wonderful it is this way :)
Hope I've convinced you to think the same.......Have a beautiful life with sadness and joy :)

Answer 4

For me I know life is good because if I were born 100 years ago, I 'd have died of starvation, neglect or got stuck up a chimney as a sweep. Life is sometimes shitty, but I'm stubborn and don't want to allow myself to become another moaner, so I ignore all the bad and live in a Pollyanna world, for me this works. If I didn't do this and had given up, I'd have missed out on the small pleasures in life which i now appreciate, like being feed warm and secure. I had a bad start in life but it was only the start, I send out nuff good vibes and get them back. Eventually. Sorry it was all blah blah, hope you find happiness soon. A complete stranger can show you love, allow others to also.

Answer 5

Everyone has good times and bad times. Just think if everything was fine all the time how little you would grow emotionally. I read a book sometime ago that when bad things happen we have to treat them as if they were a gift because they make us learn and grow. Take a step back right now and look at what's been going on in your life and see what you would have done differently and make the changes necessary for that situation not to happen again. See you've already learned from it. Also, I think that you'll find many people reading and answering your question with very positive thoughts, that should be very encouraging to you, we all care for you.

Answer 6

You will not find an inspiration without looking for it hard. I can't think of giving you a single reason why life is good. The thing is you have TO THINK that it is good. There is no other way. You believe it's will be good tomorrow after it being all right today, and you shall get exactly that.

Answer 7

Max Ehrmann


Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.

Max Ehrmann, Desiderata, Copyright 1952.

Answer 8

Does everything go wrong sometimes? Did u go bankrupt? Lose your job? Are you in a wheelchair? Are you dying?
Happiness is a choice. It's an emotion as well but emotions can be controlled, why not take control of your feelings in such a way as to further yourself instead of allowing yourself to get stuck in a dark pit?
Everyone suffers adverse circumstances, some much more than others, often they are the ones who are happiest of all....so how do they manage that?
Life is good. The glass is half full its not half empty.

Answer 9

Life is happening all around you. This is no dress rehursal. Get stuck in; have fun. Be the lover, the carer, the loyalist, the rebel, the party animal, the spontaneous and exciting person you always wanted to be ever since you were a kid.

Who said it was going to be easy in the process? But pan out - find a new perspective and get on with it... it's the best way. And remember:

"It's all just a bit of fun - 'cause one day you won't be here!"

Love x

Answer 10

There's a lot to be said for positive thinking.I used to say it was a load of bull,but life is what you make it.Set yourself a task everyday and do it.Things will still go wrong at times,but there's an answer to most problems.I had a few bad years,but am just grateful to wake up each day.You're not on your own,remember there's always someone worse off

Answer 11

If you are above ground and reading this then life is good.
If you do a small favor for someone and they say thank-you,
life is good.
If you commit a random act of kindness for a complete stranger and get a wave of appreciation, life is good.
If you get a grateful hug from a child then life is real good.
And finally don't forget Murphy's Law: If anything can go wrong
it will. Don't worry this slump will pass soon and once again the
sun will shine in your life and in your eyes. Oh and by the way,
your welcome and here is a smile for you. You seem to have misplaced yours.