if you went out 8 times and spent $900 on those dates and when you try to kiss them goodnight they turn there head so you can only kiss cheeck do you think im being used
2006-08-31 00:35:57 · 35 answers · asked by b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is the same question i asked
cant figureher out. got very diff answers
2006-08-31 00:41:54 · update #1
hey wonder twit u sound cute and she work for meril lynch and i earn big to so it was about 100 per date
2006-08-31 00:44:59 · update #2
im sorry to the lady who think im wrong you should know by the second date if you like a guy that way if not and you want to be just friends GO DUTCH the man dose not have to pay for friends meals if you do this u r sishonest
2006-08-31 00:49:45 · update #3
dont think you can really compare love and money unless your talking prostitution
you could spend $900 on each date and she is still not obligated to give you a kiss
however......
i think your possibly wasting your time and money
but this isnt necessarily her fault....... its up to you how much you want to spend.
you arent really owed anything
2006-08-31 00:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say, but if you are wondering about it, why not ask her if she sees the relationship going anywhere? It doesn't sound like either of you will miss the money, so I don't think it is a case of her not having the funds to go out and have a good time if she wants to. There are several possibilities why she would turn her head when it comes time to say good night. Don't try to second guess it, ask. But be prepared for any answer. It may not be what you are hoping to hear.
Good luck
2006-08-31 01:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off why are you spending so much money on these dates? Has she ever offered to pay for anything? If not Yes I think she is using you. Test her, Invite her over your house for a romantic dinner you cooked and a movie you got from blockbuster. If she is not into that ask her why? Talk to her about how you feel, if her response is negative get rid of her quick, becuz if you don't all you will have is drama and stress in your life.
2006-08-31 00:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by LW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard to say because she has went out with you 8 times, which would have to be a sign of her having some interest in you.........she may just have very high morals on sexually contact. If you are worried about being used, then take her out a couple more times and don't spend any money on her and see if she is still interested in going out after that.........Good luck.........and remember, money can't buy love so stop spending so much on DATING.
2006-08-31 00:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I think you're the one using them - you expect something in return for your 'investment'. But if you really want to know, don't spend a lot of money in the future. That way if they still don't kiss you, you won't feel like you got cheated. And if they do, you'll feel bad you asked this.
2006-08-31 00:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on who the lady is... some ladies want to take it slow ...most ladies would at least kiss you on the lips though.it concerns me that you are keeping track of how much you spent.is this a business adventure or a date? Do you expect a return on your investment? What exactly are your intentions? What exactly are her intentions Communication is a good thing.If you know what she expects and she knows what you expect it will make it SO much easier
2006-08-31 00:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by jeanette98070 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Judging women today, yes you are being used. But if she is one of those woman that is independant and selfreliant and all of that then you are not being used. Just that she is letting you know that she cannot be bought. So my guess is, what kind of chick is she? From there you will be able to tell what goes for what.
2006-08-31 00:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you keep going out with her? By your 8th date, you should be able to talk to her about why she doesn't kiss you. Most likely she is using you but it could also be that she gets scared by her emotions or she's afraid her breath is bad or something. Just ask.
2006-08-31 00:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You so did not spend 900 dollars on our dates you sh*thead!! People, don't listen to him! I got all dressed up in my good clothes and he took me to McDonalds and said I could splurge and get a combo meal instead of ordering off the dollar menu like we usually do!!! What a jerk!! I'm going to call my mother--she warned me about men like you....
2006-08-31 00:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Big time.
Or she is just shy and is afraid of moving too fast when she barely even knows you. If you like her let her know and you will not be kissing her cheek too long.
2006-08-31 00:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋