why are men????

Question

uncaring unfeeling people? i dont get em !!!!

Answer 1

lack of love from their fathers

Answer 2

I have no doubt that there are SOME men who are uncaring and unfeeling, just as there are some women who are uncaring and unfeeling; but your categorization does not fit ALL men any more than it fits all women.

If you are having a problem with a particular man, or a few individual men, I'm sorry for that, but be comforted in knowing that they do NOT represent all men.

Answer 3

You haven't met the caring, feeling ones yet. Or maybe you have, and you'd never have noticed them in the crowd.

It's difficult to tell the ones who are unfeeling, uncaring brutes from the genuine, empathic sort because both kinds of man keep our feelings bottled up. The good men realise that nobody cares how they feel, and the brutes don't want their enemies to see them sweat.

If you have had problems with men, it is likely that your problems could stem from their inability to understand you ... and, in part, from a similar inability on your part to understand what drives men - again, specifically, the men in your life.

The ones you should look for aren't necessarily going to be the pinup boys, the standins for the Chippendales - there are any number of reason why they won't be suitable, starting with the likelihood that such men are going to be attached, gay or even /both/.

Thing is, just as you don't get us, so it is that often enough, /we/ don't get /you/ women, either. And, unlike women, who can empathise with others and understand how others feel, men ... aren't as experienced with being able to understand feelings. We try to fix what we don't like, instead of working through and talking about our feelings; which is why, instead of talking about our relationship problems with our partners, trying to reach an agreement on something, we seem to think that a bunch of roses is going to help - and we get surprised and defensive when it instead makes matters worse.

So, the only advice I can offer to you, as a man, is this: Be patient with us. Some of us /are/ very hard to understand ... but we are surprisingly well worth the effort.

Answer 4

Not all men are uncaring and unfeeling. No one should ever be placed in an "all" category of any kind. If you want to know if your man is caring and feeling watch him when he is around the women in his family. Grandmother, mother, or sister. This is a good gage for these qualities. If he can be rude and selfish openly around them then it might be time to move on.

Answer 5

Some men are some arn't. I am a caring guy even though Im not a snag. Why are some woman uncaring, unfeeling. My ex was like that, thats why shes my ex, doesnt mean I think all woman are like that.

Ask a general question get a general answer.
Why cant woman read road maps?

Answer 6

You're obviously mixing in the wrong crowd. Not all of us are, as you suggest unfeeling or uncaring.

Answer 7

there are some bitter women on here!!

some of us are good guys and this general labeling of us being uncaring and unfeeling is out order. just cos you can only find losers don't mean that they are the only ones out there.

and i forgot, you lot are all perfect!!!!!

the worlds most beautiful enigma, wrapped in a puzzle, maybe you dont get us cos we dont get you.

Answer 8

We are uncaring & unfeeling if women are so much self confident any maybe closer to feminism ideas..

Answer 9

They are not all like that but it does seem that way if you are hurting. Be more careful next time it is all part of the learning process till you find the right one. But remember which ever way you look at them they are different from us and sometimes they do things without realising it is hurtfull. What is important to you may be the last thing on their minds and they dont understand why you get upset over such trivial (to them) things. Hang in there and dont give up on them totally

Answer 10

Not all men are like that. Just keep going until you get a decent one!! Personally I have cared for a terminally ill mother & terminally ill father, looking after them for months each and being with them until they passed away. I have always put myself right at the bottom when it comes to looking after myself, and the once or twice that people have seriously let me down it has been by women who have taken me for being a soft touch (which I am!!). Not all men's IQ levels are lower than their testosterone levels......but sadly a large percentage are!! Best of luck mate, all the best, Robin

Answer 11

I don't think its fair to generalize. I find both men and women can be uncaring and thoughtless people. Men some times have a harder time showing their feelings, but that doesn't mean that they don't have them. Now if you found a guy who is cold, dump him and find another.