with her ex who used to beat her up. Then u realise your gonna be kicked out of your flat if you can't pay rent this month. Should I jump on tube line tonight at 11.54?
2006-08-31 00:32:32 · 31 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you have relatives or mates You can stay with? What you need right now is some people around you who can help you get over what has happened to you. If your girlfriend would rather be black and blue than with someone that doesn't hit her than it's her choice to go back. If she asks for your help tell her to go to a woman's hostel and seek counselling on why she goes for men that hit her. You my friend need time to heal and I really hope you find that with family and friends. Good luck and don't do anything rash like jumping in front of a train things will get better in time.
2006-08-31 01:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by charlotte e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's really difficult for you right now.
I would focus on getting a job. Let the girlfriend situation take care of itself. If it carries on, fine, if it doesn't, fine too. If you focus and invest in job hunting/interviews you'll come across as being keen at work and land a job.
It will also take your mind off the girlfriend, and may even mean you spend less time with her.
After you've paid your rent, and feel better at work, then start to consider the girl. You might have changed your mind about her by that point.
2006-08-31 08:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by Southern Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a job, then she probably wouldn't cheat with an old scumbag she dumped for u. Get a job and sort your lazy life out, or, like all other lazy idiots, take the easy way out and do the jump. I just hope you find a tube on time to jump...Good luck
2006-08-31 07:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by This is me now 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sick question. Besides which, why leave it open for another 3 days if your going at 11:54 tonight???
So to humour you. Don't jump. Dump her. Get help from a friend, get a job, get a new flat or better still pay your rent and keep that one and get over it....
2006-08-31 07:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by tommytominski1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If such a thing happened to you, the first thing to do is to leave the girl and forget about her. She don't deserved your love at all. Then look for a job and talk to the landlord to give you some grace period to pay the rent. Then start to look for temporary job and work for the moment just to earn some money to pay the rent. At the same time look for a permanent job and get a stable salary.
2006-08-31 07:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By doing that you will be the biggest idiot alive. Just sit down and calmly look at the possible solutions to get yourself out of this mess. Like looking for other employment. If you can't make the payment speak to your landlord or get a couple of buddies to lend you the money for the time being. As for the girlfriend. Forget about her, you deserve someone that will love no matter what and that will cherish you and won't go messing with that. Best of luck amigo.
2006-08-31 07:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things can only get better. Go see a friend or family member that can help and talk to them about it. Things happen as they are meant to and at some point in the future you will look back on this time and realise it strengthened you - it can't do that if your in bits under a train. Dump the girl and concentrate on yourself. You do matter and you can cope with this.
2006-08-31 07:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be serious!!! Get your life sorted out - dump the girl, get a job, anything at first just to bring some money in, pay the rent or find somewhere else to live. Then get yourself a decent job and a new girlfriend! Simple!!!!
2006-08-31 08:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its a quick death, i wouldn't expect an open coffin though if i were you. So the you idea of having your body ripped apart, your head severed and crushed and popped like a balloon, your legs and arms ripped from your body and your intestines ripped away sounds more appealing to you than your girlfriend cheating on you? yeah i get you, plus you'll probably ruin not only your family's lives but the life of the train driver but that's OK as you wont be around to care.
2006-08-31 07:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by odette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell! No! Don't even think about it, ending your precious life on a cheater, this will be a bonus for her, You are not the guilty one, they are most likely, "Two Of A Kind" and, 'meant for each other' "Let it be" At the moment, you are hurting inside and feel irresponsible for any actions, control your emotions and think about all your friends and family who adores you, just, you think about it. Grab your coat, and off you go job hunting, with motivation and anticipation the future will be bright and beautiful, with no worries, and many happy days. Good luck.
2006-08-31 09:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋