I HAD A BIG FIGHT WITH MY MOM AND SIS. THEY ALWAYS GET IN MY PERSONAL LIFE
2006-08-31 00:18:33 · 24 answers · asked by yara s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to me , I am all ears
2006-08-31 00:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok here is some small piece of advice, as a friend.
The reason your mom/sis/family are getting into your personal life is coz they care for you. I do not know what you people were fighting about, anyway. But as people in their teens or early 20s it is difficult to understand why they are doing it. We are always like "why the hell should they be bothered about what I'm doing"and "I wanna live my own life"and "I can do better without them poking around".
But in the long run you will realize that they were only trying to help or trying to tell you what was right. It will be difficult for you to take it, but you should make an effort and try not to fight with family. A Family is supposed to have fights, that is the way they get closer, if you do not have fights and stuff that means you do not care for each other.
Suggest you take some time out by yourself and try & see from everyone's point of view as to why the fight happened. And see if you can make the change to make it better for everyone, make evryone happy incl; yourself.
And anyway they will get over it pretty soon and come to you.
2006-08-31 00:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by Batman Simon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself that it always takes two. Since when have you ever seen a person fighting with him or herself? In other words, if they continue to bother you, don't show them they're bothering you, the worse thing you can do is to retaliate. Talk to them first though, always, always communicate. If that doesn't work, go for the first alternative. Fights with moms and sisters are very normal. You are probably in the stage where you are learning most about yourself and need some privacy. You are not alone! And the older you get, the better things will be. If not, you can always move to a different state by that time.
2006-08-31 00:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear,
How old are you? Do you know what is exactly important to you in this age? Do you know your environment very well including your school?In young age we feel that as if a person wearing a green glass spectacles.This person sees as everything is green.
You understand what I mean.May be you are doing the same.You see your parents know what is good or bad to your age from life experience.You are saying you need a friend.But what kind of a friend you are looking for? a girl friend?a boy friend? Make it clear and consider it it is important. I feel you are looking for a boy friend.But you have to prioritize, whether you have to do your study very well.This will make you to decide correctly.It also gives you a clue whether your parents are right or not.
2006-08-31 00:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by girum_tadesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're under-aged your mom has the right to know what is going on in your life. She's probably just concerned about you, but she expresses that concern in a way that looks like she's meddling in your business. Try telling her you're not comfortable with her getting in your personal life.
2006-08-31 00:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by Dahv Inchi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this, but family have a tendency to get into your personal life. One thing you could try doing is minimize the info that you give them. If you don't want their input don't let them know every aspect going on in your life.
2006-08-31 01:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by michtb3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!I have that to but u can't let them get to u .Just go for a walk to clam down then if they start with u when u come back lock ur self in ur room with music playreally loud.If that doesn't work then just tell them how u feel
2006-08-31 00:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by shorty60ee9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fight with my sister and my mother too sometimes. I know how you feel it is same in my house but it's becaus they care about you even if not look that way. I'd be happy be your friend and tell you things OK even if you get so mad!!
2006-08-31 00:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know. thats what my mom does to me and I hate it! Dont worry they'er get over it and tell your mom and sis to stop butting in your life. ^_^
2006-08-31 00:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about the possibility that they get into your business because they care about you, want to see you safe, and do not want you to make the same mistakes they did?
I know it is irritating when they do for whatever reason.
2006-08-31 00:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by shortfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey they are your friends just go sit by yourself and think it over. just think of this if you didnt have them you would have no one that cared about you or what you did ever. when you get old enough you will be so glad you have them. before you loose them with fighting and or forever
2006-08-31 00:30:14 · answer #11 · answered by emily719 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋