If I were to tell you that we are going away on a weekend to a special function and dinner. Gave you £500 to buy something to wear what would you buy. My partner bought trousers and blouse no lingeries for £98. I wanted her to look a million dollars. I feel so let down.
2006-08-31 00:10:49 · 28 answers · asked by tezz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Surely what she chose is what she wants to wear. She's not your doll to dress up as you please. Tell her she looks a million dollars anyway.
2006-08-31 00:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by K38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thing is she can't wear the lingerie at the function / dinner undisclosed so I can't see the problem really. Maybe what you guys should have done is had a fun shopping day together where she tried a few outfits on.
However, if that's what she feels comfortable in, then in your eyes she should look a million dollars regardless of what she wears!
2006-08-31 07:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have bought a beautiful dress and something special for fun with you later that night. Maybe she didn't realise about the function? It's always best to talk to her and let her know you're not trying to dress her or tell her what to buy but that there is a certain dress code that will be needed for where it is that you are going.
2006-08-31 08:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she didn't think it was appropriate to buy lingerie with your money. After all, you were going to a special function. Maybe she felt like she needed to spend it on something to look good while you were out. It never hurts to drop a hint now and then to let a lady know what you're thinking.
2006-08-31 07:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by djsugarmuffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well if you gave ME the money Id come back in a swave designer creation - plunge neck and backless with killer heels. However - maybe your partner isnt a girly girl? How does she dress normally? Like is she a kinda frumpy dresser? Maybe she doesnt have any confidence in buying sexy outstsanding kinda dresses - perhaps you could ask her about her choice of outfit, and if she seems down about it maybe go shopping with her to pick out something nicer - dont be hurtful about it though.
2006-08-31 08:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a handsome man promised me money to buy something because he was taking me away for the weekend you better believe I would buy lingerie.
2006-08-31 07:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she hasn't bought something sexy prior to you giviong her the money? She probably just bought something that she needed, because she was saving up to buy something sexy with her own money or already did buy something sexy. And personally I'd get some lingere but things I need normally too.
2006-08-31 07:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't YOU buy her some sexy undies.
I bet she'll look gorge in her new outfit anyway - but you can help her feel even more so by buying some nice sexy underwear.
If not - tell her she looks gorgeous, women need to hear it. Make a fuss of her no matter what. Come on, make an effort. It's not all one sided for her you know.
BE ROMANTIC!!
2006-08-31 07:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mum-Ra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As me and my man never really get the chance to do things like that, i would spend it on a new dress, shoes, matching handbag and some sexy underwear or something sexy for bed definately i would be wanting to make the most of it defo
2006-08-31 07:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by hanspam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried telling her how you feel? Perhaps she just felt guilty spending all your money on clothes. Did you stress to her how important this weekend is to you? You never know she might have a sexy slinky dress hung in her wardrobe, already, just waiting for such an occasion.
2006-08-31 17:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask 4 u're u're cash back!
If my hubby had given me the money like that I would have really gone to town and bought stunning expensive outfit and lingerie that would have kept him up all nite after the do!
Selfish *****!
2006-08-31 07:15:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋