i'm still a student so I rejected many guys who interested in me because i'm not ready in any relationship...but now I always freak out when my friends said no one will marry me in the end...what is the correct age do you think?actually i'm 18 years old right now...
2006-08-30 23:58:02 · 9 answers · asked by Princess G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The right age is when you are ready to get married and settle down. Also when you are mature enough to handle relationships and secure on who you are. If you are loyal to your friends, get decent grades, respectful of your parents, have a job, know what you want and have self esteem, then you might be ready for a relationship. You are right not to have a serious relationship while you are studying.
2006-08-31 00:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kellybelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We single people need support! Why does everyone try to get us involved in a relationship as if singleness is a disease?
I'm glad to hear that you rejected guys because you don't feel ready to be in a relationship. That is very mature. Loads of girls go out with the first guy who asks just to have a boyfriend and then they get in a whole lot of trouble over it.
Don't listen to your friends. Of course you'll still be able to find a guy and get married in the end if that's what you want. Don't rush into things just because you think time's running out or just because you think you'll lose your chance.
If anything, the fact that you know you don't want to be in a relationship and that you're content being single makes you even more attractive to guys. I mean, you'll be confident around them and you won't be trying to impress them and you'll be yourself around them so really you're more likely to get a good guy and a good relationship out of it all because you're waiting.
As for the correct age, there really isn't one. It's completely different for different people depending on their maturity level and on whether they feel ready/comfortable with it or not and depending on their priorities. If you want to focus on your studies then a relationship is not the way to go.
Email me (first through Yahoo! Answers) if you want to talk about this more. We single people need to stick together and give each other encouragement or our friends will pressure us into something we don't actually want.
2006-08-31 07:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by Sindri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right age is -0, so at 18 u r not to worry, u can get serious about u r self and then enter into a relationship, will this be fine!!!
2006-08-31 07:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by dhansuma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends who have told me that,some got
married,then divorced,while others made it
their life work to marry and didn't for ages,
and when they did,were beaten to pulps,ect...
some had kids and got dumped,so stick to
your guns girl!!! It is better to wait past the
age of 18teen if you can. The older you are,
the more smart your choices should be,
because watching others can teach us alot,
and asking questions,ect...........
I think it's wise to wait to be honest.
People who tell you what your friends said
are only saying it because they probably
believe it about themselves,so they are like
in a hurry to find someone.
Abuse is really a bad thing today,and seems
to be getting worse. Do what you feel is best
for you,ok?
2006-08-31 07:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no correct age in falling in love and be in love. You can do some group datings first. As long you are ready to commit yourself and u are financially independent... do what u deem fit!!
Have fun in exploring another stage of ur life.
2006-08-31 07:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Flyn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it. you'll know when you are ready. it's a person to person thing. i met my husband when i was 19 and we have been together for almost 7 years now (wow that just made me feel old). don't submit to peer pressure, it's pointless. you'll know when you are ready to make the leap into a serious relationship. btw - my husband is 5 years my senior, so it's totally different for different people. don't worry!
2006-08-31 07:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jenessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no correct age. you are a bit young for marriage,but you can have relationships. why not?
2006-08-31 07:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by tttpsunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should wait until 25
2006-08-31 07:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by black cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
22 and later( after college is a must )
no college, then stay away!!!!!
2006-08-31 07:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋