2006-08-30 23:44:44 · 14 answers · asked by curious cat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in what ways will a guy treat you if he's possessive?
2006-08-30 23:51:22 · update #1
He is cheating on you
2006-08-30 23:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's jealous,that's what it means!!!
Many guys are,especially those who are
insecure. Yes,some act jealous when they
are guilty of cheating,so you won't do it too,
but many more are jealous because they
feel they are not good enough for the woman
they are with,and she will replace him when
she finds a better man. Insecurity is at the
root of it. He needs to get help on his own.
You cannot fix him. Too many women have
tried to help these kind of men,and they
don't get well easy. He must learn to like who
he is first and accept himself flaws and all,
and believe a woman can truly want him even
if he's not perfect,and most guys aren't,yet
some guys are secure with who they are and
thats the difference.
Get a healthy,normal male.
2006-08-31 06:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy isn;t all bad. this means that he loves you a lot. You should just prove to him that you are trust worthy and that he shouldn't worry that you will put any other guy above him. How do you gain this trust? Give him little gifts and lettres and tell him that you are the luckiest person on earth, because you have him. Let him know that you don't want anyone else. Good Luck!
2006-08-31 07:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by amanda b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean alot of things. He is probably just scared to lose you to someone else he knows what he has is good and doesnt want to lose it. Or he is just showing that you are hes and he wont let anyone else have you or he is just a possessive man and thats something you gonna have t deal with
2006-08-31 06:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that he has low self esteem and is afraid that you'll leave him. There could be something in his past that has led him to believe he has to be the "protector" or "defender". Ask him why he gets jealous. Maybe it's very simple and you can work through it.
2006-08-31 06:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by inoym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a warning of a potential abuser. Call a local women's hotline and talk to a trained counselor. It's free and it just might save your life. Do it now or you could be in for some very unpleasant surprises.
2006-08-31 06:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
that he is controlling u really need to get away from him NOW it starts out being jealous but then it gets badder by the day, next he will tell u that u cant go here or there then he will ask u who u r with all the time...if ur smart u will run now!!!!!!
2006-08-31 07:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by prettypink_hair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem,insecure,possesive,potentially abusive.
2006-08-31 06:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Direktor 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means he loves you. But he then needs to control his jealousy feelings becuas they can have very frustrating to both of you...
2006-08-31 07:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by Natasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a "curious cat" then he must be a "jealous tomcat", MEOW !!!
2006-08-31 06:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him to avoid his jealously..
2006-08-31 06:53:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋