My best friend introduced me to this guy...we talked for about a week through text messages and then he wanted to see me!So i took a pic...and send it to him..then he stoped talking to me,because he didn't like what he saw.Ok no offense there...but a week after he calls me...and talks to me like nothing happend..!The fact here is that he remembers me whenever he want's,but today he calls me..i don't answer and then he calls my best friend...and they talk for about 20 min..!Anyways we are going to go out tommorow and i know that he will like my best friend because she is more beautiful and thin than i am..!
I don't know i want to make him pay..and i want to start crying he really hurt my feelings...!Tommorow i want to see his reaction...i want to find a guy to go with me and see that i can find someone...!!!
What do u think of this???
2006-08-30 22:30:53 · 17 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the fact is that my best friend already has a boyfriend...i am not jealous or immature...he just hurt my feelings!!!
2006-08-30 22:37:09 · update #1
But he has never seen me in person only from that picture...!I don't know..i think i will go....
2006-08-30 23:01:45 · update #2
Stop it! Why are you even wasting your time with this guy? This guy rejected you then say "OK" and move on young lady. Don't put yourself through the pain and misery of trying to get back at someone who has probably done you a favor by not even getting to know you. You are making him important to your ego and that should not be.
We all get a chance to feel the pain of rejection but we must move on and not let it destroy us or cause us to act out in pain. Instead, maybe you can work on yourself. If you have some areas that you need to work on then concentrate a that and then maybe try find the man you want.
If you are overweight or not as slim as you like, then work with that instead of trying to be accepted. If you need to work with your hair or skin or whatever, get to it. Most importantly, work on your mental and spiritual self.
You could be drop dead gorgeous and have a really rotten attitude and just turn folks off. It's really up to you. Wish you luck!
2006-08-30 22:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should not suffer because of a jerk. Don't think about making him pay and things like that. That would make you sad again. Just ignore him at all. Show him that you don't really care about him and that you can find much better than him. You don't necessarily need to bring another guy with you,(if you want to OK) but your behavior towards him is far more important than that.
IGNORE HIM. MAKE HIM FEEL WORTHLESS!
Don't give a damn about him. You deserve someone better my dear!
2006-08-31 05:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill, girl. You don't know he didn't like what he saw. If you don't like the way you look, then go exercise and be more thin. Otherwise, find a guy who can appreciate you for you.
Life's too short to worry about getting back at guys and girls who don't work out as partners. Just play it cool, don't be jealous, and I guarentee you'll be more attractive if you seem like nothing phases you.
2006-08-31 05:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Seraphim 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why on earth you want to create mess and process of depression for your self . Better ignore him and do not join them , make some lame excuse to your best friend , In-place of meeting him find some nice guy who is really likes you .
2006-08-31 05:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even follow through with the plans to see him? Get cocky. He doesn't want to see you...throw it right back at him...he CAN'T see you! Then laugh at him because he's missing out on a lot. And try to talk to your best friend about this.....it can't be that bad trying to figure things out, right? :)
2006-08-31 05:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
VERY grim situation. If you realy love him come out infront of your best friend and the whole pic will be clear.
2006-08-31 05:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by eitemad_eitemad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a drama insecure queen!!! You are seeking to be spiteful and vengeful. You are not giving this person a chance. Why would you want to sabotage the possibility of creating a friendship possibly a relationship?
You are immature my dear...GROW up...!!!
2006-08-31 05:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
honestly he wont learn his lesson. so i wonder why you would put yourself through this. the one thing women need to remember is that most guys don't care i know its unfortunate but i would just stand him up. good luck.
2006-08-31 05:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by q-fire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's bad...
that boy is even worse
u shouldn.t do ur plan
just be happy for ur best fren
and ignore the boy....
2006-08-31 05:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by kimfoo_ong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he sees you in the flesh and what a good person you are, he'll like you.
2006-08-31 05:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋