im the only one out of all my close friend not to have a boyfriend, and in fact i have never had one, never even been asked out! Im not hidiously ugly, i have lots of friends including men so i dont think i have a bad personality, why is no one interested in me?
2006-08-30 22:30:04 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was told that men do not like smart women as they are intimidated by us!
That aside I believe that if you love yourself then others will love you - this is something I personally need to work on.
Please do not go Speedating/Singles evenings - they are a waste of time and full of dodgy men!
I'm 29 and I still haven't had a boyfriend - all I can say that it is lonley at the top!
2006-08-30 22:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Amazing Magenta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
A lot of it's just luck- who you meet, timing, etc. It's not about what's right or wrong with you- you just need to find someone you have chemistry with. It could happen any time- some of us just have to wait longer than others!!
Also think about how picky you might be- men need to think they've got a chance before they'll ask you out- you're not going to be giving those signals to people you aren't interested in, so if you have really high standards you're going to have to wait that little bit longer!
2006-08-31 06:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be the signals you are sending. If you are overly confident that is a put off or if you are needed, that's a put off, etc. Try to watch yourself and how you are acting, what you are saying and then watch others around you and see how they are interacting. Get ideas from them. Sometimes I think peopleare so good in the friends roll the other person just doesn't think you are interested, Watch you signals and flirt just a tad bit.
2006-08-31 05:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'est la vie. Men are attracted to women who give out positive vibes about themselves - confident, fun and outgoing. If you feel down and like you don't have those sorts of qualities people can sense this about you and it's off putting. So try to forget about things and just be yourself, that'll allow you to just be those ways and the minute you stop worrying the men will be checking you out!
2006-08-31 05:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by T M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because you're a student which is why you have nothing better to do than piss about on here all day!
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Try asking someone out, it might work
2006-08-31 16:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Dave B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps there are lots interested it's so hard to spot when someone is intereseted. I have people come up to me and say this girl or that girl is giving you the eye I never believe or take them seriously, because I have low self esteem. Perhaps you need to work on your self esteem.
2006-08-31 08:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by davidleeryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a female friend like that loads of friend both girls and boys. not bad looking great personality and she has no bfriend and always says the same. So you are not alone!!! just be yourself and be happy and the right guy will come along and grab him when he does because he prob will not know! thats what my girlfriend did!
2006-08-31 06:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by peterpeterpeter1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have "friends" that are men..... didn't you know that alot of relationships start out when you are just friends? maybe there are guys that like you but it's hard for them to ask. it really is hard. it would be awesome if YOU asked a guy out because that would be unique and a relif... if the guy says yes
2006-08-31 05:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time and I'm sure you'll find someone. I'm not sure of your age but if your under 20 then you have plenty of time, well i mean we all have plenty of time but if your under 20 don't be too eagar to rush into anything. you will meet a nice boy soon, i promise
2006-08-31 05:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by dave the wave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odds are that at least one of those guy friends of yours is already into you. Flirt a bit and find out.
2006-08-31 06:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by GunRunner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋