what is the best way to approach a lady in a night club?

Question

i think ladies are very nice and i always want to talk to them when i am out in a pub and club but i nerver know what i should say to them can any one help ?

Answer 1

Be honest and sincere! And smile! Just walk up to a lady you like. Smile and tell her that you feel you would like to meet her. Make her feel comfertable, look her in the eye, don´t be pushy, buy her a drink. Don´t ask to many direct questions (where do you live work etc as she´ll be worried you may stalk her ) but ask about her interests. And smile :-)

Answer 2

Be honest. Don't try to be overly amusing to impress her, or stretch the truth in *any* way. Trust me, she'll know, and she won't appreciate being lied to.

Go up to a woman and tell her something like: "I couldn't help myself- I had to come over just to tell you how beautiful (graceful is a good word, too) you are." If small talk ensues, go with it. If not, don't press your luck at that moment. Go back to your own spot and have someone take her a drink and tell her that it's from you.

It's not worth it to try to hurt a girl if she doesn't want to dance or talk with you. Women talk amongst each other. Any stupidity or pushiness will spread through conversation. ;)

Answer 3

My friend, you are in need of some help, let me advise.

1. Read this book, "The Game" by Neil Strauss

2. Surf over to http://http://www.fastseduction.com/

I was having a few problems myself, of a very different sort (loss of interest etc), and these two sources sorted me out.
I'm now back to my former, 'sarging' self.
Seriously, check them out, the forum on that website is essentially an online community of friendly blokes, swapping ideas and theories.

Answer 4

Be yourself & give them a sincere compliment with a nice smile. Meeting a woman is all about attitude, self confidence, how you are groomed & the way you carry yourself.

If no conversation develops move on to another woman & do the same thing. Women love to be noticed for their hair, sweater, whatever makes them stand out.

Answer 5

Be a gentleman. Don't act like a horny pig.
Go up to her with a big smile and look her in the eyes. Hold your hand out for a handshake and say, "Hi. My name is (your name). May I ask yours?"
Then start up small talk. Pretend like she is the only one in the room and whatever she is talking about is really interesting.

Girls like to feel special. Not like they're a cut of meat on the meat market.

Answer 6

don't be cheesy fake or just plain old stupid!! you cant expect the girl to want to sleep with you on sight unless of course shes easy. i would just say be nice real respectful and have confidence but don't be cocky and a warning to you not all girls will trust you right off the bat as most guys just go to clubs to get action to don't be upset by some of the rejections!

Answer 7

There are no ladies in night clubs

Answer 8

Straight forward - Just go right up and ask her if she is "into it.". she will either start laughing & the ice is broken or chip her Bacardi Breezer over you - she will be half-cut and it will be dark and noisy - so dont be embarrassed about getting a knock back ...Fire in Darren Boy..! but Dont ask her if she wants a drink..yet! - as you will have to walk away from her to get it - meanwhile the next chancer is having a go..

Answer 9

There are two simple steps that work every time!
1. Make eye contact with the woman you want.
2. Wave a hundred dollar bill in the air.

Answer 10

U dun hv to say anything just leave your branded wallet on the table n make sure they can see all yr credit card n cash + leave yr sport car key on the table too....they will approach u jus wait n see!