She can repeat 95% of what you say to her perfectly,but when it comes to her speaking on her own,it's very garbled.We've spoken to her doctor more than once and they always tell us to not worry and give her time. I'm taking her back to the doctor nxt week,but I want the opinions of others also.
2006-08-30 22:07:36 · 14 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Personally, I'd find a new doctor. While it's true that some children talk later than others, girls especially, do not typically fall this far behind. You should consider seeking a Developmental Pediatrician. I think it's also a good idea to get in touch with the Special Education Director in your school district to set up an evaluation with a Speech/Language Pathologist. Your daughter is too old for Early Intervention services through the county or town; at age 3, the school district is responsible for further intervention.
I'm really surprised your current doctor has been putting this off so long. To go for that amount of time without much progress indicates a problem. GOOD LUCK! I wish your daughter the best.
2006-08-31 19:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by Marie K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you say that she repeats what you say, is it worded exactly the same? I mean, if you say, "The red car", would she say the exact same thing back? If so, you could be dealing with ecolalia... basically a parroting of what others say. Does she say sentences or phrases she has heard when they are not appropriate? Such as, "Silly Elmo" is fine when watching Sesame Street, but not when you are getting dental work done. Perhaps she just has language difficulty... not knowing how or with what words to initiate conversations. Practice this by playing "telephone" with her. Have her carry on a conversation with you on a pretend (or even a real) phone. Ask questions that would require more than a "yes" or "no" answer so that she learns to draw out her answers. Have her ask you questions too. Definitely mention her language skills to her pediatrician when you see them... they need to know you are concerned. By three, she should be saying 3 word sentences spontaneously- not just imitating what she has heard.
2006-08-31 23:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by dolphin mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that she is repeating the words. Ask her doctor. Not talking is a sign of autism, and it really needs to be caught at this age. But that might not be her problem. I couldn't get my son to say anything...and it took the right teachers, and speech therapy, and an in-home trainer for me, but it worked! Make an appt. today. The pediatrician is the one who knows what should be tested, etc.... Go by your "motherly" instincts. If you're worried, get help.
2006-08-31 05:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may only be late in talking on her own. The best thing that we could of done was to put my son in daycare. Since he has been going he is more open and likes talking to and seeing new people. He sees the other children and picks up what they are doing and it helps him to progress himself.
Some people don't believe in putting a child in daycare, but I think it helps them develop their people skills... even though they are only children but they are being created and molded into the person that they will be some day from the day that they are born.
2006-08-31 07:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by csc1976 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can repeat 95% of what you say to her clearly enough, then you don't have to worry. She can hear and will soon learn how to speak on her own.
2006-08-31 05:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by jeprx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're wise to take her to the doctor again, I sure would if my 3 year old wasn't talking. They say by 18 months they should be able to say 3 words at least. Good luck!
2006-08-31 05:12:28 · answer #6 · answered by latterdaylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children had different age development stage of time... if she can speak and repeat words do not worry just talk to her often and observe more
2006-08-31 05:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by desiree gersaniba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it with moms and very high expectations? A kid that age does not speak like a stand up comedian. If she can repeat what you say and can give reasonably good answers to your questions, she's ok. Don't push her. People with low confidence develop speech disorders. Remember I warned you.
2006-08-31 05:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by WaterStrider 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi, don't make her repeat what u say. instead, ask her questions and get reply from her. play her some cd's in which questions are asked and kids answers in chorus. she too might join that chorus if its interesting for her. join her in ur conversation with ur partner.
above all, do not compell her to talk. leave her freely. shez just 3 yrs old. time makes wonders! good luck!!!
2006-08-31 05:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by priya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be evaluated by your early intervention program in your area. She may qualify for free speech or language therapy.
By age three, she should have functional speech.
2006-08-31 22:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by cindy1323 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋