Ok, i am WAY confused now. I asked my g/f if we are still "going out" and she said no. She didn't sound too serious though, it was more like a "noo?" sound, you know? And i asked if she hated me now, and she said no. It was kinda hard to tell how she said things because she was quiet. She started to say something but stopped. I guessed that someone asked her to the dance but she said no. i didn't ask her. i followed her to our next class and i was telling her that there is something really important and personal about me and blah blah blah (no i'm not gay and no i am not cheating) and she said "youre digging a hole" and i said "yes im digging my grave with my tounge agin" and went away. now i don't know how long i should wait until i talk to her. i was coufused and sad, and i know she was sad, and my friends were saying she is confused too.
anyways, i'm out of space so i will add the rest in a minute on an attachment
2006-08-30 22:06:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, so the thing i was getting at, was what does it mean that we are "going out"? i thought it meant that you "go out" as in, you go on dates to dinner and whatnot. It could also mean that you are "boyfriend and girlfriend" or are in love or something.....
so, do you think that she meant that we aren't "going out" anymore because i haven't taken her on a date for over a month (that's a long story and NO i am not cheating on her because i love her) .... OR did she mean we aren't going out as in "she wants to break up with me because she is not in love with me anymore"????
but.... there is a chance she still would be my friend, right? (i hope so!)
please help me everybody, i really am not good at understanding "girl language" (because, as you know, when they say one thing, it means something else)
THANK YOU
ANY KIND OF ANSWER IS WELCOME!!!!
:)
2006-08-30 22:12:24 · update #1
OK more details on why she wouldn't like me.
I said some things that offended her, and i didn't say them on purpose.
I apologized to her once when my friend shoved me into her and she didn't think i was serious (i sure was, though!).
I was hugging her when my friend was close by, and she felt awkward.
I swore once (she doesn't like swearing at all).
I missed out on the perfect opportunity to kiss her for the 1st time (we still haven't yet) (this is probably a dissapointment more than why she would hate me).
And more stuff that i didn't think was dumb until AFTER i did it.......
2006-08-30 22:18:41 · update #2
sure if she really loves you
2006-08-30 22:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a. If you haven't kissed her yet that probably mean that you are little to young to be worrying about a relationship with a girl that probably from what I'm guessing does not want to be with you.
b. If you "love" her which I think is a little phony for your age then why would you have a question on what she meant if you really loved her then you wouldn't be worrying about whether you two are together.
c. If you really want to be with her as bad as you say you do talk to her. Girls want a guy to be blunt with them, no offense but a guys hints sucks and just about always come out wrong and end up turning into a fight and when you say "i was only trying to be nice" we don't believe you
d. When you went to talk to her you shouldn't have walked away from her finish what you are saying, make her listen to you, She's not the only with something to say.
e. if people are saying that she is confused ask her to be your girlfriend to clear everything up that would be the easiest way!
f. I don't really think that you did anything wrong really there not even anything to forgive you on, you asked a question she answered she probably misunderstood what you said if anything you should be mad at her for saying No!
Good Luck I hope I helped!!!
2006-08-30 22:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first, grow up. I can say this hopefully without offending you because I was the same way back then. Quit analyzing everything she says and treat her like a friend. Apologize sincerely for offending her, don't do it again, and get your mom to take you both to a movie or something to show you mean it.
Then, when the time is right, go in for your first kiss with confidence. I promise this stuff gets easier as you get older. I know thats probably not what you wanted to hear, but I'm just trying to help.
Go get her tiger! Be a man!
2006-08-30 22:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Seraphim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why Does She Want To All Of A "Sudden" Want To Break Up With You??How Can You just Fall Out Of Love With someone????..I..Hmmm Im Still Trying To wonder What She Is suppossed To Be Forgiving You About?..I dont think swearing can cause a break up Unless She never did love you and just Lookin For Any Reason To Break Up With You...You need To Talk It out With her See what She Wants And Let Her Know What You Want..Goodluck
2006-08-30 22:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all--girls of any age are confusing and usually don't have reasons to do anything they do. We are moody and confusing creatures, which is what intrigues you men so much!
However, from the things you were listing and saying about why she may be mad, I get the feeling that you are too young to be "dating" or "in love"...take some time to grow up and be friendly and flirtatious with girls before you pick one out to date.
2006-08-30 22:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by Balou0017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats dumb..well play around like go out with another girl and play around telling her to make ur gf jealous of u 2. after that when she gets a bit jealous meet her somewhere and kiss her. and the other girl u played with... tell her it was all a play :)
2006-09-03 15:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN TO "Seraphim" HE KNOWS WHAT HE IS SAYING! And anyways you should be more easy with her. Its not possible to hate you unless you've done something that hurt her which I don't think you did. Yes of course you need to hunt but don't pressure so hard. Oh and think before you act and speak. Try using the romantic technique to get her back, I myself would love that...
2006-08-30 22:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole here! :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I understand. Stop all that your doing and wait! If she is interested, she will call you. If not chalk it up to one of life's lessons! How long you wait is up to you! There are many others out there! You and her have choice's to make, it seems that she has made her's! You can wait for a time to find out! You can not her choice for her any more than she can make your choice for you! That's life kiddo! And this is a good time to realize it!
2006-08-30 22:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she really loves u you would/will know very soon....if she doesnt it will take time to heal but u willl.....i just broke up with my gf and im so sad right now...dont worry u sound young so u will have plenty of time with the ladies,... goood luck though
2006-09-01 15:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with her....if she doesnt want to listen, make her listen....communication is one of the key points in a relationship and both of you need to be honest and open in order for it to work out. you didnt say the reason why shes wants to break up with you so i cant give you a straight answer....if she loves you then of course she will forgive you....but that also depends on the severity of the situation. just talk with her, get everything out in the open and everything will be just fine.
2006-08-30 22:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by woodstock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a good honest talk with her, open communication is the best.
Tell her what u feel out from ur heart.
2006-08-30 22:11:34 · answer #11 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋