i met this guy at work and hes very fun and flirty. he asked me out on a date but kept cancelling on me. finally we hung out and we kissed and i started to fall for him. the very next day he invited me and my best friends on his boat. he was all over my best friend and completely ingnored me. later that night he asks her out on a date. once he found out that she had no interest in him, he came crawling back to me saying stuff like "i know ive messed up, and i promise to stop. i learn from my mistakes and ill never hurt you again. i wanna change...." he knows i beleive in forgiveness and 2nd chances so he asked for a 2nd chance. should i give him one? please help
2006-08-30 21:56:05 · 14 answers · asked by woodstock 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be happy that you are blessed by God for the gift of forgiveness. Every one does not believe in forgiveness.
But forgiveness is not going back to the same person even if he has hurt you or let you down.
Forgive him, for ditching you,talk to him as a human being,but do not get involved with him as you had felt for him before. You are forgiving,but is he repentful ? You may be soft at heart, but his intentions may still be the same, a fling,good time sex,etc.
So I will say forgive him but do not fall for him again.
2006-08-30 22:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness nothing! He tried it on with your mate, she said no so he comes back to you? Tell him to feck off with himself and get yourself a decent bloke!
There's 2nd chances and there's being taken for an eejit!
2006-08-31 05:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by lindaloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good to have forgivness, and sometimes 2nd chances are good, but personally, I was never one to have "sloppy seconds". so, maybe his second chance will be that he won't screw up with the next girl he tries to get with. sounds like he wanted his cake and eat it too.
2006-08-31 05:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by stargazer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Second chances end up turning into 3rd, 4th, and 5th chances
2006-08-31 13:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by Yen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not, i mean, the guy was obviously is using u as a object for rebound. if you really like him, then u should, but if hes only a crush, ditch him like the dog he is.
2006-08-31 04:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kat D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump that player b4 he do that again. He dont deserve u.
2006-08-31 05:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sweety! He's only interested in your friend and want to use you to get to her.
2006-08-31 05:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by coolray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun, I would have serious doubts if I were you. You deserve better!
2006-08-31 05:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HHmmm a second chance to screw you over again sometime...let's see.......
2006-08-31 04:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ye but if he dose it again forget him
2006-08-31 05:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋