I have known this guy since 1997 now he's 27. And one of my best male friends. I have introduced him to one of my female friends recently and she's 16 years old. But they seemed to click right off the bat. He seems to care about her and she does him. I have this thing in the back of my head that it's not 100% right but they seem to be getting along great and all. They are in no shape having sex cause my male friend thinks it's wrong to. He says he will wait for her if he needs to when she turns 18. If there still together. They don't talk sex and all. Is it ok ?
2006-08-30 21:55:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As for jbmains69 comment. We all hang out TOGETHER. I know everything that is happening. Unless there as quick as a blink. They DO NOT see eachother when I am not there. So stop being some pervert. He's not you and some scum
2006-08-30 22:10:18 · update #1
he seems a very considerate guy, and since he is not running into a sexual relationship with her, why worry? he seems to be a very nice guy to wait for her to mature before wanting sex with her! You should be very happy for your female friend to have found someone who will not rush her instead of wanting sex from her.
2006-08-30 22:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't necessarily think its right. I've had a friend thats went through this more than 10 times with guys that are 10 years older than her or more. Guys are smooth talkers, and 16 years of age is a very vulnerable age. You believe anything they tell you, because theyre there trying to make you feel good. And then they use you, and bam theyre gone. If hes a truly good guy, he will break it off with her and wait until she turns 18.
2006-08-31 05:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by GunsnGlamour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's 27 she's 16 and you're actually believing they don't talk or have sex? PUHLEEZ!
he's banging her she's liking it and you're the one left scratching your head
if it works for them thats cool but don't be fooled he's not just helping her with her homework
2006-08-31 05:06:40 · answer #3 · answered by jbmains69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they really Love and care for each other that's all that matters. Age make no differance.
2006-08-31 05:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 27 year old needs a spanking, he wants to date a child...Ugh.....He should know better...........
2006-08-31 05:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be hanging with his own age group and visa versa....
2006-09-01 18:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by hunterman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is not rite.......she should not be dragged into sexual feelings............she is at the peak time of studies.....this will interfer her studies.......so let her reach her 20s....
2006-08-31 04:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by bEwaRe___oF____Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shi* go for it
2006-08-31 05:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋