last 2 weeks ive invited this girl out to a pub with me, but both times she wasnt able to come.
today i sent out a message to all my firends that i got a new phone number and she sent me this reply.
"hey got your messsage, hope you have a good weekend. ive got Pe assignment to do, and then next week the arts one. lol"
is she hinting for me not to invite her out anymore?, i mean i didnt ask anything about going out for weekend, and thats hit me hard.
or is it just me reading it really badly
When she said no other times she always said next time i will deff, and before this about 2 months ago she invited me out about 4 times in a row, and i had to say no to each cos of work.
only positive way i can think, is she suspected id ask again and thought to tell me before hand, so it didnt seem like she was giving an excuse on the night and that she would indeed be busy
2006-08-30 21:47:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep the relationship with her, but dont close ur eyes to other option too.
Things sometimes didnt work out, but doesnt mean she dont like u.
Thing called love need time to grow.
U got nothing to lose from the friendship with her.
2006-08-30 21:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two have busy schedules. Could be that she's letting you know she's unavaible cos of her assignments.
The fact that she asked you out 4 times in a row is pretty clear she was interested - regardless of the fact that you had work commitments, you should have been upfront and told her that you'll be flat out at work, tried to make a call to the pub after work.
Suggest meeting up on a work night, doesn't have to be an allnighter. Don't give up right away, she wouldn't have asked you previously if she wasn't interested.
2006-08-31 05:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Maggs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She Doesnt want to spend time with you, Shes trying to find an excuse each time to avoid goin out with you..I could be Wrong... But To Messege You And tell You she Has an Assignment And Arts the following Week Is A Big Fat Slap On The (Beep)..Move On>>Find SomeOne Who Enjoys Spending Time With You And Vice Versa<
2006-08-31 05:04:48
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looks like you've got some miscommunication in this relationship. since you were at work those days she invited you, she musta thought that was an excuse. so now, she is doing the same to you.
it's possible that she isn't interested in you and just gave you her number so you would go away. and then she knew when you work so that she invites you then?!?..........
i don't know, but keep trying to call her for a month and if that doesn't work, don't call her back and maybe she will call u
2006-08-31 04:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sorry you're not a priority for her, you need to move on. Wouldn't you make time for somebody that you're interested in? So would she. In fact, she might already be- but who wants to hurt other peoples feelings, so she's hoping if she blanks you long enough you'll get the message.
2006-08-31 05:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just some misunderstanding, ask her when she is free to meet u, when she does then u see ur schedule n see if it is ok, U tell her its her which of day n see for urself too... N Meet if she is still gonna give lame reasons time to move on gal.. Tc
2006-08-31 05:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out if she really is indeed busy. Ask her friends what she's doing this weekend. If she really is doing assignments, you've got nothing to worry about.
If not...well...
Dry your eyes mate,
There's plenty more fish in the sea.
2006-08-31 04:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by bgii_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are #6 on a list of 6. Move on
2006-08-31 04:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should not stop if that is what you really want. Things will get better as time goes but don't let her fool you.
2006-08-31 04:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by coolray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can try asking her one more time. If she isn't able to come, then maybe there isn't a chance for you to be with her. Well, Good Luck!
2006-08-31 04:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by space 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋