I have broken with my boyfriend as he had made another girlfriend and he was never serious with our relationship. Though i know that it was not his true love for me, but i love him truely with bottom of my heart. iam trying my best to forget him but not able to do. i think it is one- sided love , but i can never forget my first & last love. Iam totally shattered and don't want to live.Please someone tell me what to do.
2006-08-30 19:41:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get over it.
2006-08-30 19:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, if you told this female in the beginning that you were falling for her and she told you she doesn,t feel the same way then you should probably respect her wishes. keep in mind that she may already be in a serious relationship an just love to have you as a friend which is not really so bad either. some people say you never realize what you had until it,s gone. just try to remain her friend but less involved and less in her presence just be there for her when she needs you. and eventually she will she what a good man you are and she will realize that you are her other half if you guys should grow apart
2006-08-31 02:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sindebad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to fixate on somebody else. Also cut contact with the guy as much as you possibly can. Try to fantasise about somebody else, another guy, a celebrity, anyone, just to get that guy out of your system. You were 100% right to break up with him, congratulations. And your life will get better. When you're 40 you'll think it's silly you got so upset over a crush, if you even remember it then. Really, it seems a big deal now, but time will give you perspective.
2006-08-31 02:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not the only one who gets heartbroken . Everyone has had their heart broken, itis a part of life and most people have gotten broken hearts more thatn onc eand then found true love. Its part of a heling process you half to go through. Perhaps if are feeling unable to cope you should talk to a professional or freiends then you need to treat yourself reslly good and someone else will come along soon. Dont worry. Feel the pain and then it will eventually hurt a ittle less.
2006-08-31 02:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by europe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I feel u!
I just broke up w/ my bf and he had a new girl 2 days later!
my best advice to forget about him is 2:
1.if he has given u anything give it back! NOW!!!
2.never think it was your fault he wasn't good for u anyways!
3. My motto is"I get what i want! Or don't waste my time at all!!"
and 4.surround your self with people who love you for u no matter what!And always remember that!
I had to find that out myself!
if this works out for u i think my email is on here pleas email me and tell me how your problem is after that
2006-08-31 02:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Niqqie T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear, this is that time of your life when you'll learn what you like and what you don't like in a guy. If he left you for another woman he was not deservant of the love you gave him. It would be best for you to move on my dear. You will learn a lot in the next few years about relationships and boys in general learn all you can, not only about those guys but about yourself, Until you know yourself you'll never be able to keep someone else happy within your relationship.
2006-08-31 02:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by Michael H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with family and close friends who can give you love and support in your time of need. Try to go out and have fun. Don't worry. It's not the end of the world.
2006-08-31 02:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel,gal.Been in there myself and it hurts deeply.It will take time for you to get over it so just take each day as it comes,slow down with everything don't get depressed.Do what you enjoy the most and hang in there,it will just vanish by itself.All the best gal and i know you can do it!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-31 02:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by Western babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are better men where he comes from. N matter what if it was true kove from your side you will never really forget him.Move on girl.
2006-08-31 04:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, how can you still love someone when you clearly know he doesn't love you back? i was with my ex for 10 years and he was my first everything, broke up, and i'm still ok and kicking. my advice: go out with your friends and have fun. you have too much time on your hands, that's y u're feeling the way you do.
2006-08-31 02:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on it isn't the end of the world! Go find someone new.
2006-08-31 02:46:35 · answer #11 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋