I am 20 yrs old. Next month i m going to marry. I don't know him personally. I don't have much chat with him. My parents has selected him. I am afraid about my first night. As i never seen something like this, ya i know much knowledge about it. I have read books about it. But i don't know how to for it. Will it scaring, paining.
How could i satified with him. I don't know how to go first. Do i just follow him as he will say, or i need to do something on my first night.
Please tell me what should i do?
2006-08-30 19:38:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mmmmm tell your parents you dont want ot get married.
2006-08-30 19:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Deb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just plenty of caressing first, there is no rush if you get scared then simply try another day
after you will wonder what all the fuss was about
books,films etc always exagerrate remember you can have fun by hand so to speak dont worry its rarely good at first
2006-08-31 03:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by jagkes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI DEAR,
I CAN ONLY SAY THAT IF IT'S FIRST FOR YOU THEN IT'S FIRST FOR HIM TOO SO DON'T GO WILD EVERY THING WILL GO FINE BCOZ. YOU ARE NOT FOOD FOR SATISFYING HUNGER YOU ARE HIS SOLE MATE MAY BE YOU MEAN TOOOO MUCH TO HIM HE WILL NOT GOING TO DO ANY THING TO HURT YOU SO BE CAUTIOUS DON'T SAY IT'S HURT YOU BCOZ. HE WILL TAKE STEPS BACK WORDS SO DEFINITELY YOU WILL ENJOY YOU MARRIED LIFE.
AND ONE THING MORE IN ENGAGED MARRIAGE YOU DON'T KNOW MUCH ABOUT THE PERSON BUT YOU KNOW YOUR SELF THE BEST SO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF THAT YOU CAN WIN HEART OF ANY PERSON, JUST THINK ON THE TRICKS YOU APPLY TO WIN THE HEART SIMPLE, IT'S MORE INTERESTING THAN THE LOVE MARRIAGE HEAR YOU CARVE WHAT YOU LIKE BY YOURSELF. ONLY CHECK HE IS EDUCATED ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND YOU. & YOU FEALINGS.
BYE DEAR,
TAKE CARE,
DEEP_DESIRE79
2006-08-31 02:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by deep_desire79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry,u could talk to him about it.i dont know any thing about 1st time seeing that i'm a virgin but tell him to start off slow and see hoe it goes.by the way congratulations!!!!!!hope u get to love him :-)
2006-08-31 02:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kappy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang yourself and give up...because life is a LOT harder than your first time. Look, just put it in and wiggle. Your first time always will suck. Practice makes Perfect!
2006-08-31 02:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by zetser 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
GET A RUBBER FOLLOW HIM SEE WHAT HAPPENS YOU WILL BE A OK GO SLOW KEEP COOL
2006-08-31 02:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Knock yrslf down with lots of beers & wines la..... so tat u wont hv to do anything....wat better is u dun even remember wat happened!
2006-08-31 02:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be polite with him...
2006-08-31 02:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by Ananth P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no run.
2006-08-31 02:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it...Runaway.....................
2006-08-31 03:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋