My boyfriend was roaming on the internet with my computer, and whenever I was near him- he'd shift it away so that I couldn't see. And I got suspicous, so after he left I checked up on him... And it turns out- nothing. There was nothing... Do you think what I did was wrong- to be suspicous? And to check up on him?? Or is it common? Do guys do this all the time??
2006-08-30 18:58:44 · 34 answers · asked by bratworth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was looking at porn. I'd bet money on it if I were a betting man. Well, I guess there's a slight chance he was making a surprise for you and didn't want to ruin it or he was writing poetry or something...but I wouldn't bet on it. I'll tell you one thing, the "history" doesn't tell you anything. He could erase everything, or just a specific site. If you really want to know, why don't you check the cookies. I bet he didn't think to erase those. You can't be sure because even pop-up windows leave a cookie some times, but still...you could get an idea of where he's been by the types of cookies on his computer.
Okay, here's how you do it. Go to the top of your brower, click on "Tools", go to "Options" (usually at the very bottom), click on the tab that says "Cookies". You should see something that says "View cookies". A window will come up with all the cookies on the computer from the sites that have been opened from that browser.
Now, if that's not a shared computer, then I'm not recomending you do that. However, I wasn't clear about one thing, did you ever ask him about it? Just curious.
2006-08-30 19:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by aghostprofilebeingempty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably up to something. Dont let your guard down. You have the right to be suspicious. Try talking to him about it. Tell him it bothers u. He must have been hiding something. I am a guy. i know how guys think. He could have been doing something for you as a surprise, or he could have been doing something bad like looking at porn or talking to another girl. I dont know exactly. Check the history on your computer and the internet.
2006-08-30 19:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its no longer stupid.. u have been just to overwhelmed that u have been a virgin at 22.. To cheer u up unwell tell u how stupid i'm.. i had problems i became attempting to restoration and that i became fairly stress out and did now not sleep purely like 3 hours an afternoon.. i wasn't noticing that i became hurting those around me.. and while i eventually complete and solved my problems i found out that i had lost 2 of my ultimate acquaintances and the main dazzling.. impressive.. solid woman i've got ever lay my eyes on.. so undesirable she could no longer even examine out me or be with me.. i became an entire asshole to her.. now who's had it the extra severe.. this surpassed days..?
2016-11-06 03:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, did you check the history? If he shifted away so you couldn't see, it means one of 2 things...
1. Something he didn't want you to see
2. He's got a nice surprise instore for you.
Unfortunately, it's most likely #1
2006-08-30 19:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong to check up on what he was doing. It is common for them to want to make you think they have something going on. some men really get a kick out of it. Just be carefull not to over do the checking up on him, it could make him think you don't trust him.
2006-08-30 19:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah. You're not stupid. That is how you learn to trust someone - By their actions. I mean, now you know that he's not surfing for porn or e-mailing another girl, right? so maybe he just went up a level in the trust department. Never be afraid to judge, ( i know it's not considered P.C.), after all, it is your life and feelings that you are looking out for.
2006-08-30 19:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lster921 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he was up to something, chances are he was. There are ways to delete the internet history so you wouldn't know what he did when he was on there. The whole things sounds pretty silly and immature.
2006-08-30 19:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time.
2006-08-30 19:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by CharWiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was normal on ur part bcoz the way he was beahving was a sure shot indication fro being suspicious and i feel that u shud b cautious wid guys bcoz they r in habit of flirting round the corner
2006-08-30 19:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.You reacted normally to his actions.He sowed the seed of suspicion in your head by always moving the computer when you came near.Don't beat yourself up.
2006-08-30 19:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by T.I 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋