What's the best way for a girl to ask a guy out. I want to know how to ask a guy out once I've found out I really like him for his personality and everything but he hasn't asked me out. Keep in mind I'm really nervous. Should I just go out there and say it or should I plan something or write it? Or well whatever else? What would you do? Or guys, what would you like a girl to do? How would you want her to ask you out?
2006-08-30 18:57:42 · 8 answers · asked by Blair 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-30 19:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by ElectroMagneticLight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, I really dig chicks that take the initiative! So kudos for you! My ex-gf also asked me out and how it all happened was pretty funny. She liked me for a long time and I sort of just playing dumb (which is probably what he's doing) so she asked me for a ride to our HS football game. I did and she won't let me go home cuz she also needed a ride home so I ended up staying and inevitably we struck a conversation. Soon enough I realized that she wasn't there for the game so we ended up talking during the entire game, which was hella of a long time. By the end of the night we pretty much know a whole lot about each other and she kept sending signals such as telling me to stand closer to her so that I don't bump into other people (lol) and when we were leaving the stands she grabbed my hand so "we don't get lost or separated". The moment I touched her hand I knew. When we got to my car I asked her, "So what are we now?" And she said, "We are whatever you want us to be."
Man it was like...magic.
The reason we are no longer together probably largely due to the fact I'm away from home in college and she's still in HS. I'm gonna stop now cuz it makes me sad :(
2006-08-30 19:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only say this to you that don't write any thing it can be used in wrong sense it's like proof,so prefer to tell if not directly then indirectly by praising any thing of his may be his personality or his commonsense or hi nature and that's all an let him also take some steps I think its will do. I know you mentioned that you are nervous be sometime your nervousness will do a great job I have faced it , I was so nervous that i said all and hardly few words come out of my mouth but all gets will so try and be it will work.Sometime your nervousness tells how genuine you are.
bye dear,
take care,
deep_desire79
2006-08-30 19:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by deep_desire79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it's confusing. Especially when you have to ask him out. Gosh men, jk. Lol. Anyways- back the to subject of matter. Um, in my opinion I would say if you really like this guy, come on- go for it. Tell him face-to-face. But, if you don't really have the confidence to, then just e-mail him or write him a letter, or you can even leave him a message on his phone.
2006-08-30 19:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by bratworth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a pretty girl come up to me on a bus once and ask me if I'd call her sometime. Her honesty, (and beauty!), took me by surprise. I said yes and we had a great time.
Everybody is different, but I like a straight shooter.
2006-08-30 20:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lster921 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like him for his personality then both of u should alr know each other by now, so the best thing is ask him to one corner in private and just pop the question. that way there will be noone to laugh at u if he rejects u
2006-08-30 19:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send a note or call a friend 2 invite him
2006-08-30 19:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont people ask short brief questions. anyway, if interested u can use messenger
2006-08-30 19:03:05 · answer #8 · answered by maninsearch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋