I dont know anymore whether my boyfriend loved me once and lost it, still does, or never really did. What do u think? Sometimes hes so sweet and sincere and does crazy things like drive all night from Ohio to South Carolina to see me when I'm at school..and then sometimes he lies to me about where hes going, and seeing his ex, and he joins dating sites and then lies even about that when the proof is right there. Does he love me? Is he a liar? Whats going on?
2006-08-30 18:52:38 · 7 answers · asked by Freaked out 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one can un-love anyone that they have ever loved: either he or she loved (and loves) the other person, or he or she doesn't (and never did).
Keep in mind there is a huge difference between "loving someone" and "being in love with someone."
It seems as though your boyfriend is quite immature, but if he isn't being honest with you about the things you've listed (which are *huge* in a relationship), his bad behavior can't be dismissed as the product of ignorance or immaturity.
However unpleasant or painful it seems, he's just jerking you around, using you to satisfy some sort of power trip. You can't yet imagine how abusive he will be if he persuades you to marry him.
Dump him now, while you have the opportunity to make a clean break.
2006-08-30 18:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by wireflight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A smarter man than me once said 'If there's any doubt, there is no doubt.' In other words if you have lots of questions about whether your boyfriend is honest, faithful and loving, as well as actual, demonstrable proof that he isn't, then there doesn't seem to be much doubt about it, does there?
(He's joining dating sites?!)
2006-08-30 19:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That driving all night is both romantic and stalker-like, depending on how how see it. Does he want to check up on you? If you are sure he is lying about stuff, why do you ask "Is he a liar?" I would say he's lying if he says you are the only one for him.
2006-08-30 19:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by Eric 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he loves you but i think he has problems with staying with one girl.
you either stay in the relationship and deal with him like this or break up with him and find a new man who can fully be committed to you.
2006-08-30 19:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by annika23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me he cares for you but its not love at least not anymore. I don't get why he's lying but hey to each its own. Maybe its best u talk to him about it and if that doesn't work ditch his lying ***!
2006-08-30 19:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Educated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS GOING YOU WRONG LET HIM GO AND STAY IN SCHOOL YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL LOVE GOOD LUCK TO YA
2006-08-30 19:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have doubts..be firm
2006-08-30 18:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by maninsearch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋