2006-08-30 18:52:21 · 15 answers · asked by chill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ive heard love hurts but if its really love it shouldnt
2006-08-30 18:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by polkahaunis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're human...and w/ the set of feelings we all have, caring involves love. When we focus caring/love towards someone---to whatever degree---those feelings we express may not always be returned quite like we'd like. Sometimes, the ones we love say or do something that hurts our feelings.....and the love we give them can amplify that pain.
But try as we tend to do, and it's futile to think you'd succeed otherwise, you can't avoid loving someone without feeling the pain that may come with it; it's a risk of the heart. And you have to judge if the one you love is worth the chance of feeling that risk.
2006-08-30 19:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love never gives pain,but take the pains away.
2006-08-30 18:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by three aces 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,
Love never gives pain.Love can never do it.Until or unless its a one way affair. It all depends upon the kind of love. If your love is a 2 way affair, then no problemo. But..........1 way love can hurt u very much.
It can haunt u, suffocate u, torment u.......its endless. Some people have also suffered mental depressions due to love failures. So please b careful and never show your whole love to anybody unless or until they show u their affection for u. So that u dont have to suffer from things mentioned above.
I had such an experience when i was in 11th grade and i dont want anybody else to suffer from this. So please b careful.
Good luck.
2006-08-30 19:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Bravo mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love alwasys gives pains coz there r always 2 sides of evrythin it is full of excitement but also has lot of pains so u should be prepared to face it if u love someone i have gone through this nd i suggest is tht dont love ny1
2006-08-30 20:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all ur question was wrong !!!!!!!!! love gives pain or love is pain coz it is lost. its inevitable that love does not live till the end. only rare cases are there . loves is beautiful as well as ugly . . like the saying 'tere is no happiness without sadness' hehehehehe!!!!!!!!!!! good luck
2006-08-30 21:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you love you invest your time end energy thinking and giving your all to that person. When anything goes wrong, it's like having your savings go into Enron stock, you just lost all that investment, and your mind doesnt take it very well. So you feel bad.
2006-08-30 18:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by Erik E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuz there is no perfect person in this world and yea..u often expect the person to do things that u like but then they just alwiz dissapoint u, thats y love is painful..and then sometimes things just don't turn up as it should..thatz y..
2006-08-30 19:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet pain this is a different pain which everyone wants
2006-08-31 02:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly? because people don't have a clue what love really is.
also, sometimes we experience pain to help us to learn and grow. life isn't about having everything picture perfect. that's not how we grow.
2006-08-30 18:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by gothhick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because when you fall in love with someone at first ......it feels so good.............and then when that same person hurts you ...you feel pain..... true love always has pain?....
2006-08-30 19:04:36 · answer #11 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋