i was with this guy that i really liked then after spending the nite at my house after he left he called and dumped me i found out the next day that he and one of my best friends were together and it feels like he used me so thaat he could get wif her
2006-08-30 18:51:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Sorry to hear your story. It hurts, I know.
2006-08-30 18:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you spent the night doing. Talking? Whoever talked more was using the other as a sounding board. If you got intimate with him then I'd say you most likely used each other to relieve the tension all twenty-first century humans feel these day. If he then did the same for your friend be happy for them and move on. When the right guy shows up he'll stick around. That's how you'll know he's the one. Hope you practiced safety and used caution. In the future ask yourself "Am I a victim or a volunteer?"
2006-08-31 02:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by hairypotto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that he really used you only? Maybe he is just another playboy in the city! I understand the situation you are in... feeling really hurt and feel like a bi*** right? Sorry to use that word. I used to be in the same situation as you before.
Raise up yr voice. Let your friend who is his gf now know about the entire thing. Blow things up. At least you and your best friends stays the same.. no unhappy matters. Don't let the guy gets what he wants... its too unfair to girls like us!
2006-08-31 02:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by BabySweetish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I apologize that you feel like you've been used. It's important for you to remember that you are NOT the first person something like this has ever happened to.
He probably did use you, but just be strong and get over it. Be happy (I'm sure you are still young and life will still have obstacles to come.)
2006-08-31 01:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by ElectroMagneticLight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-31 01:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like that was pretty much the way it was but the real question you should be asking is how good of a friend is she if she went out with him after knowing that you liked him and had him stay at your house ???good luck
2006-08-31 01:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by christy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, sucks don't it?... I've been used by women so many times that it makes my head spin. Just be glad you didn't have more time invested into a relationship with this guy.
2006-08-31 02:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by Big Thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, yea yea. Life sucks.
He sounds like a wonderful human being.
Are you seriously suggesting that you want to be with him
Yorkshire people say, "good riddance to bad rubbish"
2006-08-31 01:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by BazTheFraz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he used u. so take this as your lesson - never go to bed with the first guy u meet. hasn't your mommy tought u that?
2006-08-31 01:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if he used you to get with her. But he definitely used you for sex.
2006-08-31 02:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by Chicagoan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋