My boyfriend and I have been together about a year. We've been living together for almost 5 months now. It seems like since we've been living together we hardly ever have sex anymore. It's hard because we used to have it 5 to 6 times a week and now we have it once a week if I'm lucky. I know that he is not cheating on me. It's just hard because he always used to initiate everything and I'm very submissive so I feel weird asking for it. I've brought it up and he says he's tired. It makes me feel like he doesn't think I'm attractive or as if he doesn't have any drive for me at all and it really bothers me. Any suggestions? Please help I really love him and just want to be close with him in this area again.
2006-08-30 18:38:02 · 6 answers · asked by Kira 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this happens all the time i think its quite normal ?? its just a small phase, people work and work and get tired and have busy lives...what you need to do is be more comfortable with yourself and initiate things. Also do things different, shake things up a bit.
change is good sometimes, especially in the bedroom.*
Good luck!!
2006-08-30 18:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by nikel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we make love every single day.Twice at least. I think that he's just trying to adjust to your living together and because he can have you anytime, he's probably not as excited about sex as he used to be. Give it another month and then sister girl if he doesn't change, he's definitely getting some elsewhere i.e. HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.
About you thinking that you are unattractive-BULL!
His change in attitude has nothing to do with you.Don't start blaming yourself.
2006-08-30 18:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by T.I 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to spice it up. Get some sexy underwear, come onto him strong, and I assure you he will pull out the energy he needs from somewhere.
He needs to feel wanted and special. You can't let the intimacy die.
2006-08-30 18:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by yazukka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. That should spice things up a bit.
Apparently, owning the 'milk' isnt as enticing.
2006-08-30 18:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the thrill may be gone for him now that you live together.
2006-08-30 18:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by tina m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spice it up!!! Take him by surprize, he will get it back.
2006-08-30 18:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by want2wild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋