After 7yrs my girl left me 4 mths ago she said it wasn't going anywhere I was about to ask her to marry me and move in together and we were already saving for a house now she says she is seeing someone else. I have changed things that she said were things that caused her to leave. I miss her heaps and still want to be with her she said we can't be friends anymore only "aquiantances". I am giving her space. but I cant stand not seeing her or hearing her voice or talking about how her days was. I want to get back together but she has said it is not possible ever this is the second time in 7yrs we have split the first one was caused by her family. this time she says she wants more and says that I could not give her more. but I have offered everything she asked for and more and she still wont change her decision so how do I get her back????
2006-08-30 18:26:54 · 21 answers · asked by Tidus1978 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats tough. Sorry to hear about that but Im pretty sure that once a womans mind is made up, thats that.
I would advise you to make a new start & try to concentrate on your carreer by yourself. Build your home & prepare to meet someone new. Who knows, maybe your girlfriend will see you making progress in life & come back to you.
Good luck brother
2006-08-30 18:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how much it hurts wen the one for whomv cared so much leave us for no reason,but sweetheart its not ur fault,u hav done evrythng for her and 4 ur relationship and wen her turn came she ran away. i knw u wont like my answer bcoz u r not in stage for accepting it. i am also like u. but tel me if she herself was hurt and the decision was to just to mover then y does she need to get along with sum1,u shud b happy that u r not ne more wid such a gal who has left u 4 sum other guy. i thnk she is a gold digger and a selfish person who just gets into the relationships to b secure financial.
who knws one day she wont sacrifice her body for money, u deserve much better in life i knw its difficult to move on but life never stops
2006-08-30 18:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude-let it go. Move on and find someone else. If your ex sees you with someone else, maybe she will figure out what she is missing. If not, you will have found someone else. She already has, so you might as well move on.
2006-08-30 18:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurt i know but the best way to get back is to not care if you show you care to much you may push her away more but at the same time don't act like a dick to her ether and see how you guys may get back together
2006-08-30 18:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by REGGIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if she has moved on...... you need to do the same....... you will either find another or spend your life alone...... your choice here...... sorry, but some times when it is over it is just over........ let her go...... if you need to move, make changes so you can, then do so........ cut her loose........ she deserves and so do you, to be happy in and with life...... life is just to short to waste on the what ifs......... take what you have learned into the next relationship.... dont count this as a wasted lesson......God bless
2006-08-30 18:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many other fish in the sea. Her loss may be your gain. Who knows, maybe she would've walked out on you after you had kids....
2006-08-30 18:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you figure it out let me know I have been married for 7 years and my wife is seeing another man and we have kids
2006-08-30 18:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by dan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW THAT IT IS HARD AFTER 7YEARS WITH SOMEONE
BUT SHE HAS MADE VERY CLEAR HOW SHE FEEL AND YOU
NEED TO RESPECT HER DECISION. THE MORE YOU TRY
TO GET BACK WITH HER THE MORE IT WILL HURT YOU.
IT TIME TO MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE THAT
YOU CAN LOVE AND GIVE YOUR HEART TO. SHE MOVE ON.
2006-08-30 18:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry me a river, build a bridge, and get over it ... move on seriously it will be healthier for you and you'll see what I'm saying in a few months
2006-08-30 18:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by ebaz1358 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont, you get over it and move on and find someone better who cares about you and loves you for who you are, n doesnt try to change you
2006-08-30 18:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by ;-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋