I Dreamt that I had gone to take up some economics coaching and met my best friend there (who I have not met for three years as she was transfered to Hong Kong(. In My dream when I met her she was not really pleased to see me and kept ignoring me. When I asked her about it she said it was not her fault and we were not really friends now as we hardly spent any time together. Could this dream be a mirror of her feelings? Sure we havn't met for a long time but still to me she is my best friend. I never felt very far from her but is it the same way round? She has been my friend since my 5th grade and losing her would be really sad. Actually since my graduation I have been thinking of propsing her but after this dream I feel really confused. Does She even wants me as a friend let alone a bf.? And before you ask the stupid question, I am 20, perfectly entitled to propsing. Plz help yaar!
2006-08-30 18:25:36 · 11 answers · asked by boom_ady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it has more to do with what you feel. You feel bad that you haven't been in touch with her as much as you like and you're afraid of anything negative happening in your relationship with her. Just talk to her. Of course she doesn't know what you're dreaming.
2006-08-30 18:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually the symbols in dreams are said to have specific meansings. However, this is usually untrue because many symbols have different meanings to different people. As for the girl acting like she didn't want to be friends it is a interrepation from your subconcious questioning if you should propose to someone you haven't seen in a while especially when you haven't dated or been going out.
Now unless you somehow channelled your friend into your dream it is not really a mirror as to how she feels because you haven't even seen her. Or perhaps you where having a dream of your future (deja vu) where you will meet her, and she will say those things, but this is unlikely.
So basically, I would reconsider proposing to her, and actually would try getting back in touch with her in some way. hope this helps.
2006-08-30 19:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Hi Ady! This is the first time I am answering your questions. Generally it's the other way round, but you know you should not leave someone you care so much for well enough alone. You should have maintined contact and I m sure it's not too late. So call up your friend, tell how much you love her and everything WILL work out. All the best...
2006-08-30 18:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Ady! You Idiot you really are a loony. I mean. Oh you must be confused. Preeti, ok? So why did you never tell ME? I mean you are ready to share your heartache with the world but not me :-(. Do you know how much self-doubt I have faced and you are sitting there like loony asking on YAHOO! ANSWERS the solution of your problem. You could have just asked me idiot. Of course I love you but It felt that YOU were the one who was not interested but now i know otherwise. MyGraduation will finish soon and then I'll visit an idiot of a friend who could never work up the nerve to say "I love you." Call me, ok? Bye.....and before you grow more confused I LOVE YOU.
2006-08-30 18:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by angelcoolfunky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's my interpretation of your dream. I think you have been thinking of her, and missing her, but you are unsure whether she is missing you also. There is only one way to find out...contact her. See if you still have a connection, maybe now you can get to know each other as adults. Who knows, maybe you will feel a love connection with her. Don't rush the proposing, for heaven's sake get to know her first, it's been a long time since you've been together. Take your time, if you're only 20, you've got lots of time.
2006-08-30 18:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are usually your subconsious portraying your fears in this case it sounds like rejection/commitment.I think your subconsious is trying to jinx you but also give you a message that you may not be as ready for marriage as you think because you haven't given your full heart and are afraid that she may not feel the sameway and reject you.
2006-08-30 18:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like subconsiously you feel like you didn't spend enough or all the time you could with her and it's your subconsious expressing that. Since you met your friend unexpectidly you really miss her. You should call her up and talk to her, your subconcious is probably over reacting.
2006-08-30 18:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This dream is just recapping your fear. I don't think its foretelling anything. Sometimes we may have dreams that brings to surface the things we fear, in your case this being reject by your friend. I doubt if its a literal dream, I could be wrong though. But always seek God for interpertation.
2006-08-30 18:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Contesta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this dream could be a reflection of her coldness, in general. It is not a reflection on you, or your relationship.This dream could be a symbol of your insecurity, because you love her, and don't want to lose her.OR possibly, has she been ignoring you lately or been too busy for you. Don't worry, it's not a sign she doesn't love you, propose to her, you love her.
2006-08-30 18:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by old & decreped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hei you!
don't you know that dreams tells your's subconstient, what are you afraid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
helooooooooooooooo!
go and ask her before someone else does!
that dream is just your subconstient that is afraid!
now, go an ASK HER!
2006-08-30 18:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋